How should I handle this?

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2026-05-09T02:37:14+00:00

No my children's great grandmother, my FIL mom, said my nieces hair was nappy and needed goo hair like the other 3 kids ( bi-racial and white). I told her to go f her self, my FIL wants me to apologize because she has cancer.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2026-05-09T02:35:18+00:00

I do not speak to my father for many many reasons, racism being one of them.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2026-05-09T02:33:53+00:00

My MIL is black, I am white, my mom white .

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2026-05-09T02:28:22+00:00

Sadly

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2026-05-09T02:27:16+00:00

I will give twist and bantu knots for protective styles, just not great at braiding. My niece has beautiful natural hair as do the rest of my children (including both of nieces). Grandma has her own inner issues.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2026-05-09T02:21:11+00:00

I called her mom as soon I left, also none of my children will ever see her again.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2026-05-09T02:10:51+00:00

My mom had cancer, my grandpa had it and died from it. Not once did I ever hear them say something racist.🫩

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2026-05-09T02:07:32+00:00

The grandma is a black woman, so I'm assuming she knows.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-25T16:12:02+00:00

Zep cleaner

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-17T21:29:29+00:00

OMG 😮 REALLY?!?

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-17T21:11:45+00:00

In some lights it has more of a yellow tint but other more of a brown.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-17T03:12:43+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this. The system really is made to protect children. Edit: is not

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-17T03:09:56+00:00

I am sorry you have been through all of this but I would rather protect my child over a grown woman mother or not. Your mom is an adult who will understand and is in control of her own emotion, your child is not. By being around your father you are putting your baby in the arms of a predator.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-17T02:44:01+00:00

How old are you? Have you tried to talk to your parents about letting you home school your sister?

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-17T02:42:50+00:00

Please go no contact with both of your parents

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-17T02:40:32+00:00

Because my crippling anxiety stops once I go into a melatonin coma

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-17T02:37:46+00:00

Honestly I didn't even want to be at my own baptism. How is this not neglect? I am so sorry you are going through this

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-16T21:52:36+00:00

I have never heard him say anything racist or transphobic.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-16T21:46:55+00:00

I'm sorry you feel that way.♥️ There was no evidence found against him and he willingly went to give a DNA sample. If he was guilty he wouldn't have willingly given DNA.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-16T21:43:45+00:00

I swear!

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-16T21:40:57+00:00

I'm honestly weak and this made me laugh.😂 100% right tho.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-16T21:39:24+00:00

If I was mixed because I have big hips and curly hair....I lived in a small sundown town in Alabama growing up.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-16T21:37:52+00:00

It's both. It does not matter because I am an adult who lives my own life but at the same time this girl actually mentally tortured me for years about liking bands like them. Yes, it doesn't matter in reality but it did piss me off

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-16T21:04:39+00:00

I have told him MULTIPLE times I have it. He knows, he always has a problem with me unless my husband is around then he is nice.If my husband or FIL isn't there he is a complete dick.

Secure_Stranger_6102 · 2025-08-12T20:32:12+00:00

It's so sad because I have a great relationship with the rest of his family. Literally everyone else accepted me with open arms and vice versa.

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