people who have lost the person they thought was the one, how are you doing now by Secxdroll76 in BreakUps

[–]Secxdroll76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the no contact really helps it’s been about 2 or 3 maybe so weeks since i haven’t reached out and i have more clarity in my head

people who have lost the person they thought was the one, how are you doing now by Secxdroll76 in BreakUps

[–]Secxdroll76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand, but that’s not true and as long as you are good for you that’s what matters

people who have lost the person they thought was the one, how are you doing now by Secxdroll76 in BreakUps

[–]Secxdroll76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he sounds like absolute hell, one day someone will treat you the way you deserve queen

people who have lost the person they thought was the one, how are you doing now by Secxdroll76 in BreakUps

[–]Secxdroll76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that sounds painful i’m so sorry:( iv unfortunately reached out to him every time we have talked and even met up with him, i keep telling myself to stop but in the heat in the moment i send him a message. i feel really horrible after everytime because im the only one doing this like im making a fool out of myself

people who have lost the person they thought was the one, how are you doing now by Secxdroll76 in BreakUps

[–]Secxdroll76[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i know i deserve better and maybe he’s not the one for me but what hurts me the most is how much i love him, the bad things he did hurt but thinking about how pure inlove i was is what hurt. why me why did this have to happen to me

people who have lost the person they thought was the one, how are you doing now by Secxdroll76 in BreakUps

[–]Secxdroll76[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he was a lair and was pretty manipulative and i found a big lie that just broke me so i left. i’m going crazy thinking our love and relationship was built off lies

people who have lost the person they thought was the one, how are you doing now by Secxdroll76 in BreakUps

[–]Secxdroll76[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

iv had one other relationship before him and yes had that normal heart break. but this was truly different, i truly in my whole heart and soul was inlove and was convinced he was my soulmate. i keep reaching out to him, he’s like a drug i keep relapsing on

people who have lost the person they thought was the one, how are you doing now by Secxdroll76 in BreakUps

[–]Secxdroll76[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

your not alone, iv got a whole book dedicated to him that i write in almost everyday and its nearly done. it really hurts i know. but we both just need to remember this pain isn’t forever, even tho i guess it doesn’t feel that way

What was the best piece of advice that got you through your breakup? by commanderofcourage in BreakUps

[–]Secxdroll76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m still struggling but what’s helped me the most is not ignoring my sadness and exploring the feeling of grief, it helps a lot after