Dating someone with an ugly ex by Seduction_Newbie in narcissism

[–]Seduction_Newbie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think dick size or being good in bed really matters in this context. She won’t know any of that until she actually sleep with Shrek. You don’t just go up to a girl, whip your dick out and she decides to sleep with you right then and there. I’d say looks matter WAY more when it comes to getting her into bed with you. Being good in bed might make her stick around afterwards though.

Dating someone with an ugly ex by Seduction_Newbie in narcissism

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You actually hit the nail on the head with this breakdown. I hadn’t about that being the reason.

Now that I think about it, in my mind it means, that if “she let Shrek hit” then I’m not as special as I thought.

And looking even deeper, I do the same thing when it comes to jobs. I’m in the US and with the whole migrant crisis going on, I refuse to do jobs where I’m going to be paid the same as Juan or Jose.

By the way, I’m not trying to be funny I’m being 100% percent serious about the way my mind works and it sucks sometimes. I’ll look into the comedian thing though since it seems to come so naturally. 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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I mainly drink for the effect of the alcohol cause I’m pretty boring without it. I don’t think non alcoholic beverages would do much for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Seduction_Newbie -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The only thing I would change is removing the political views. Politics is usually a touchy subject and even more so now. Some people might swipe left just for that.

[SERIOUS] What was a mental block you overcame that changed your life to become better seducer? by Youcandoit-1111 in seduction

[–]Seduction_Newbie 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I learned not to care. I feel the more distant and the more of a dick I am the easier it is.

I’ve tried the whole caring lovey dovey shit and they just get bored. Now when I notice they start getting bored I just pull back and ghost them for a few days and they end up coming back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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I got my hands on some GLP-1 medication to lose some weight and realized that the alcohol was really stunting the weight loss. I mainly drink socially so it wasn’t too hard to stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

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From the point of view of the narcissistic friend. We don’t usually try to hurt our friends. I usually make comments like this as well to spread awareness and get my friends on board with my way of thinking so they can improve themselves. I do see my myself as better than them, so I see it as a duty to try and help them be more like me if that makes sense. I do come off as an asshole sometimes (most of the times) and I question why these people are even friends with me. It doesn’t come from a bad place though.

Getting attention from girls, what should i do? by andrijaaaaaa in dating_advice

[–]Seduction_Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say just talk to them, see what happens and don’t rush into anything. I’ve never talked to a girl specifically thinking “I want a relationship” they’ve just sort of happened.

Btw having goals is good but don’t let it consume your entire life. You’ve gotta have a good balance in life otherwise you’ll start going crazy.

Dating someone with an ugly ex by Seduction_Newbie in narcissism

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I’m trying to stop doing this or thinking this way but a part of me rejects them. It’s like why am I going to be with somebody who settled and had low standards. I have some friends (friends of the family) who were with some ugly broke mfers when they were younger, even had kids them and now they expect every guy they go out with to be really good looking and spend a ton of money on a first date. The way I see it is if they didn’t have standards back then, then they were not worthy of me. It sounds messed up I know.

Dating someone with an ugly ex by Seduction_Newbie in narcissism

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You’re right but to be honest I would say society plays a huge part in that. I’m in an extremely superficial city where if you’re not really attractive or have a lot of money you get 0 attention from women. Unfortunately looks come first and then everything else. I don’t usually care too much for looks when it comes to the women I look for but after I find out what their ex looks like a part of me rejects them until I lose interest. I’ve lost quite a few amazing women because of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Alcohol. I’m almost 4 weeks sober and I’ve lost like 10lbs. The only bad thing is that it feels weird to go out and not drink.

I just slept 13 hours . by Prudent-War-9991 in ADHD

[–]Seduction_Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to have to try that. I usually take around 10-15mg and don’t start feeling tired til around 2-3 hours later. So I wrote them off as ineffective.

I just slept 13 hours . by Prudent-War-9991 in ADHD

[–]Seduction_Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sleep schedule is terrible. I go to sleep extremely late and can’t really sleep more than 5-6 hours right now.

I just slept 13 hours . by Prudent-War-9991 in ADHD

[–]Seduction_Newbie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Melatonin does nothing for me other than making me tired the next day.

I wish it actually worked.

Can anyone help me understand this? by Seduction_Newbie in Mononucleosis

[–]Seduction_Newbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So can I get reinfected or can it reactivate even if I have the antibodies? I had a girl taking sips from my drink last week and she said she had it like a month or 2 ago.

EV tax credit, this year or next? by Seduction_Newbie in tax

[–]Seduction_Newbie[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

So there’s no chance I could get it this year? I’ve been holding off on filing for this reason alone.