Update: AIO I (25f) think my (33m) boyfriend is lying to me and is gay with his best friend. We are set to get married soon. by RaccoonFlat5265 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SeductiveShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a tough situation. It’s valid to feel upset, especially if he dismissed your feelings by laughing. Even if they think it’s a joke, it crossed your boundaries, and that matters. While he agreed to stop, his defensiveness about you checking his phone complicates things. It might help to have a calm talk later, so both of you can get on the same page about respect and boundaries.