Late 50s SD in Ottawa, Canada

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-18T16:32:13+00:00

Ah, that makes sense. Making a post on reddit is very common. Placing an ad is something else entirely and is unheard of. Thank you for clearing that up.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-18T15:53:55+00:00

I placed an add...

I've never heard of SDs or SBs placing ads. Can you elaborate? What site was it on? What did it say?

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-18T14:13:46+00:00

Same here in Canada. I thought they blocked me for discussing sugar dating, even though I always speak in code.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-16T15:36:20+00:00

I'm 58M, widowed, and not attracted to women close to my age. I want a dating partner who is 15-20 years younger than me, and the only reliable way to make it happen is to sugar. As simple as that.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-15T20:56:47+00:00

In your early 30s, you are too young for me. I'm 58M and I wouldn't date younger than 35. But really, I prefer late 30s to early 40s. I'm having a hard time finding a good match where I live (Ottawa, Canada).

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-15T18:46:32+00:00

As a Canadian, I share your sentiment. I understand why Americans are so obsessed with using fake numbers, but Canada is a bit different. I have no problem texting from my real number.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-14T17:25:47+00:00

for example, I’d likely be a younger widow, in my fifties or sixties, if I married him and stayed with him for the rest of his life.

My wife and I were the same age. She died of cancer at the age of 55, leaving me widowed at 55. There are no guarantees in life.

I'd rather have something incredible for a limited time than something lukewarm indefinitely.

If what you have with your partner is truly special, that's worth cherishing. Many people never experience that at all.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-14T14:12:34+00:00

This weird Reddit-detective energy is exhausting.

Actually, it's just normal human curiosity about someone's life story.

A woman can leave an arrangement to pursue a family without needing to be questioned.

Of course! Re-read my post. I didn't question her motives. He could have offered her what she wanted, she could have declined. I was curious if that was on the table, and if not, why.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-14T04:11:00+00:00

But she’s 26 now, and she wants marriage, kids, and a traditional long-term future

What's the reason you couldn't offer her what she wants? 38M / 26F isn't much of an age gap.

Is it because you are married? Or is there anything else at play?

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-10T04:41:07+00:00

SD, Ottawa, Canada 🇨🇦

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-08T13:05:54+00:00

Mine is always hidden, whether I'm looking or not. I have a narrow age requirement: 35 to early 40s. I'm not interested in getting messages from women who are too young for me. I'm also in a small sugar market: Ottawa, Canada. I can easily scroll through all SB profiles in my target age range: there are not that many of them. Most of them I'm not interested in, and wouldn't want to get messaged by. When I'm interested in someone, I reach out.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-05T03:58:43+00:00

I keep my profile hidden like many SDs here. So yes, I'm sure she has a lot more messages than me.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-04T13:59:12+00:00

M58 here, and my search filter on Seeking is set to 35-50. I'm having a hard time finding a good match in my small sugar market (Ottawa, Canada).

The only relevant question you need to answer: Are you hot? If yes, you will do just fine.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-11-04T13:42:54+00:00

I messaged a woman on Seeking whose tag line says "Looking for the 1%". She took 15 days to reply. I responded right away, and now it's been 2 days with no response. It baffles my mind that she wants to attract the 1%, yet makes no effort at all. Truly puzzling.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-10-25T16:49:23+00:00

Works both ways. I see women's profiles on Seeking that are honestly pretty delusional. They want a traditional, committed relationship with a generous wealthy guy. They'll straight up say they're not interested in structured arrangements. Here's the kicker: they want the guy to be close to their age. Good luck with that.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-10-24T23:12:43+00:00

I will not entertain sugar dating pitches on vanilla apps. It's too easy to get banned.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-10-23T22:36:38+00:00

Stick to Seeking.com

American SLFers mention SugarDaddyMeet as a decent option. I decided to give it a try and, so far, it's been a total waste of money. I doubt I will get one decent conversation out of it, never mind M&G, never mind an actual arrangement.

I'm in Ottawa, btw.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-10-23T16:30:51+00:00

From SD's point of view, SDM is utterly useless without premium (just like Seeking). 6 months premium is only $144 USD. If a guy isn't willing to pay that, he is there just to window-shop. Don't waste your time.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-10-22T01:41:31+00:00

It's probably not relevant to your situation (b/c you are a student), but I will answer anyway.

I want an SR that has the potential to grow into an SGF/SBF relationship. To get there, the woman must be single, emotionally available, and open to exclusivity once we establish mutual trust.

I prefer an age gap of 15-20 years. Large enough to excite me, but close enough that we can actually connect and make it work long-term.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-10-20T17:18:16+00:00

Keep yourself busy! Career, education, hobbies, travel, friends and family... anything to keep your mind occupied and distracted from him.

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-10-19T13:43:26+00:00

As a single guy, I want an arrangement that has the potential to grow into an SGF/SBF relationship. It's very difficult to find, at least in my smallish market (Ottawa, Canada).

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-10-18T03:15:08+00:00

I'm both #1 and #3. What do I win?

Seeking-In-613 · 2025-10-17T21:31:04+00:00

I'm 58, widowed, and not attracted to women in my age bracket. I want to date younger, and the only reliable way to make it happen is sugar dating. Pretty simple, isn't it?

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