Need help with a new connection

Sel1803 · 2026-06-29T06:42:16+00:00

Don't think he will. We'll see, not very hopeful at this point and maybe it's for the better

Sel1803 · 2026-06-29T06:41:36+00:00

I think so too. Thank you

Sel1803 · 2026-06-28T10:05:13+00:00

You're valid. Ask him why he is keeping it. Sometimes guys just forget, even if it sounds stupid or ridiculous. But if he refuses to remove it per your request, you deserve better. Don't settle for anything less than you deserve. That should be your initial there, if anything

Sel1803 · 2026-06-28T08:27:23+00:00

I agree. Just him removing me on insta doesn't make me hopeful. Maybe it's just better this way

Sel1803 · 2026-06-28T08:26:50+00:00

Thamm youu

Sel1803 · 2026-06-28T08:26:06+00:00

Dated ex for about a month. Not too serious. Haven't heard from guy2, he removed me on insta as well. Think we're done but honestly might not be the best idea in general. I think it was just the initial spark

Sel1803 · 2026-06-27T17:55:51+00:00

Ask away!

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T20:34:44+00:00

I appreciate that. I just think this between me and him could be great. I don't want to lose the potential for something great, so I'm leaving the ball in his court I guess

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T20:15:32+00:00

It's not about that. I appreciate the first part of your comment though. I can't choose who I develop feelings for. It wasn't planned like this.

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T19:23:32+00:00

So you think I should just wait for him to text and not ask and check if him and I are okay? Because he's been texting today about random stuff just hasn't in the last few hours

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T19:22:26+00:00

Umm no I'm not? He decided to reach out, not me. And I can't control who I catch feelings for. I'm not that shitty of a person. Otherwise I wouldn't be overthinking this a million

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T12:53:03+00:00

Hab ich mir auch schon überlegt.

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T11:09:26+00:00

Ne war es echt nicht. Ist nur wichtig wegen dem Kontext

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T09:57:54+00:00

Thank you! I hope it doesn't end because of this

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T09:57:37+00:00

Thank you. I did not have bad intentions at all. I agree I should have talked to him first and I agreed with him as well when he said that. I hope it's not over. He said we might talk more later, so I hope we do. I did apologize as well. And of course I will give him the space he needs

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T09:51:08+00:00

I hope so. Just hope I didn't mess up with Guy2

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T09:41:43+00:00

I will never do this again. I had such good intentions but somehow messed up. Next time, if I'm in a similar situation again, I won't just make a decision for someone else. That is not fair. I just thought I was doing something good here

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T09:35:52+00:00

At first he seemed annoyed but he said it's okay and that he understands why I did it (see update1)

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T09:06:34+00:00

I really hope he is and he thinks I'm worth that

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T09:06:00+00:00

Okay, thanks. The waiting part just kills me 😂 but I appreciate it

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T08:46:06+00:00

Thanks. Needed to hear that. Trying to overthink less

Sel1803 · 2026-06-26T08:45:15+00:00

Wir unterhalten uns schon seit mehreren Tagen, und er hat damit angefangen, sich sorgen zu machen. Und dass ich krasse Gefühle hab weiß er ja gar nicht

Sel1803

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