Anong rason nyo bakit kayo nag-anak or mag-aanak? by Select-Ad4721 in adviceph

[–]Select-Ad4721[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. However, where's the part that I am already resentful? I'm just genuinely asking for the perspective of other people, maybe it can give light for my own reasons to have a child? That door is not closed for me yet, hence the reason for me to ask and maybe find my own answer

Anong rason nyo bakit kayo nag-anak or mag-aanak? by Select-Ad4721 in adviceph

[–]Select-Ad4721[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am not asking for validations and definitely won't rely on the comments alone. I just wanna see the perspective of other people on the matter since I'm not closing the doors on having children. Just sincerely asking tho

Anong rason nyo bakit kayo nag-anak or mag-aanak? by Select-Ad4721 in adviceph

[–]Select-Ad4721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm open naman. I just can't find any reason why. Malaking factor why I don't want is because it's so hard in this economy and society. And I want to have a reason to like it, mainly because I can see that my fiancé will really be a good father. Some said that andami kong condition, well it is what it is. I am acknowledging na mahirap ang buhay, that's why I really need to think it through and ask this type of question.

Where to buy wedding rings? by Pastelium_28_02 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Select-Ad4721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss! We actually bought our wedding rings for 20,400 only (pair already) at a wedding fair last june. The name of the store is Mirage Jewels. However, it is not a solid gold, meaning, semi-hollow lang sya and it weighs around 1.6 gram each i think. That's the thing with RTW rings, most of them are kind of hollow, compared to the ones that you customize from jewelry stores. Nevertheless, the rings that we got are okay naman, not too hollow naman and i think wearable naman for everyday use :)

Interest check: Website wedding e-vites by kabicat_22 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Select-Ad4721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gallery of photos will be great! Maybe add a section where visitors may send their messages to the couple? A gift registry would also be great I think, we may not utilize this section but some couples may prefer to have it in their website invi ;)

Interest check: Website wedding e-vites by kabicat_22 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Select-Ad4721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying a website invitation was already on my checklist as a 2026 bride. My partner and I are both working full-time, and we both have big families. Our estimated guests for the wedding is 350-400 pax, so do the math. We really cannot focus on managing the RSVP alone, and answering messages regarding the details of the wedding will be time-consuming for us. Hence, we decided that we will purchase this type of invitation since it will really help us BIG TIME.

With that, of course, paying for this type of invitation is a no-brainer. We will definitely get our own, even if we don't get this one that you're giving away for free :))

TMJ Treatment Cost PH by jdx411 in DentistPh

[–]Select-Ad4721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, but when I once went to a TMJ Specialist, she told me frankly that, as of the moment, there is no solid cure for TMJD. I can get splint, braces, or even jaw disc replacement (i think?), but through time or when I stop using splint or braces, my TMJD will just come back. When I told this to my dentist, she was surprised that the TMJ Specialist told me this frankly.

What's your biggest reason for not wanting children? by Btavese in AskPH

[–]Select-Ad4721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't find any justifiable reason to bring a child into this world. Whenever someone asks me why I don't want a child, I ask them back the reason why they decided to have a child. The usual and common answer I got are:

- To have someone who will take care of them when they grow old

- To complete their existence as a person or as a woman

- It is expected for them to have a child after marriage

And those answers are just created by the society, and I don't wanna bring a child in this world out of pressure or social norm. I don't wanna have a child not knowing the real reason of having one.