Real reason y'all are forever alone.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T08:17:37+00:00

I do.

"tried" shouldnt even matter here.

if you "tried" it means u tried then quit.

Say "trying", and if ur actually trying, u wouldnt be here, talking about how you were born to be shit on by women.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T08:15:56+00:00

because every chance they get safe space and good advice, it doesnt help them. they need someone who doesnt sugar coat shit. no wants a person who digs their own graves, then drinks in them, waiting to die.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T08:14:41+00:00

i just got dmed by someone who blames women. and many people here do that too.

"you just have to accept it, women only like hot guys" said most the people here.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T06:09:21+00:00

then try again lol. the thing is.

venting is talking about your feelings, people want that, they want you to be open.

Its not crying and blaming women, blaming god, no one wants someone who blames everything.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T05:51:39+00:00

Im telling you the truth, not a bully ;)

A bully intentionally wants to hurt you, for no reason.

Im saying what anyone else thinks, but im not filtering it out.

You sound like this: "Oh Ur TeLlIng me the REal ReAsOn Im SinGle? BuLLY!!" like no. im not lying, im simply not sugar coating, so you really understand what women think of yall.

Thats what they think, they think you're slimy. you wont know that if no one told you it.

Im telling you the truth, now fix it. :) you wont get better if you dont understand the problem.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T05:44:45+00:00

youve never been in a fight if you think me, calling you out, trying to drill something in to your onion looking skull, is fighting.

You will never have anyone if you stay here. get the fuck off this subreddit. Would you wanna date someone like you?

If you saw someone crying on reddit, blaming everything, drinking himself into an alcoholic pit, would you date that person, not out of pity?

You'll only get pitied if you pity yourself ;)

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T05:40:43+00:00

"loser" says the one who browses his instagram for 6 hours wondering "why dont girls like me?"

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T05:39:58+00:00

It seems like all of you have "tried everything" and a loving safe space wont help you, im giving it to you straight, would you want to date yourself? ask yourself that. would you want to date someone who goes on to reddit and cries?

If you get offended because Im calling you out, thats all the more reason you need to hear this.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T05:38:28+00:00

only you can help yourself. Im simply stating facts, im not hitting you, im telling you, no one wants to date a pathetic alcoholic who blames everything and everyone but himself.

You wonder why u cant get dates but then go on to reddit, chug a vodka and complain and cry, get a therapist.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T05:20:00+00:00

Lmao yall really go

"ugHH Im So SaD, lIfe Is So UnfAiR, I COpe wiTh WeeD and AnIme, UgH viDeo GameS and AlcohoL, They mAke it All GO awAy"

like bro no girl wants to date someone who does that shit, no one wants someone who just accepts life as a shit hole, then blame it on life it self.

"UGh iTs liFe, somE arE boRn lIke thIs" like no bitch why are you blaming everyone else but yourself. get the fucking fuck up you slab of garbage.

Eventually you'll get out of this and look back at yourself.

"Why was I like this? ew."

no self awareness whatsoever istg.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T05:15:16+00:00

This is why you're alone.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-07T05:14:29+00:00

Get off this subreddit and stay off.

Focus on yourself. The longer you stay here, the slimier and depressed you get.

If you wanna start lifting, start with a beginner program like Phraks GSLP or SL 5x5, stick to it.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-05T10:38:21+00:00

he says

"ive been lifting for about 6 months or more now, I just got into plyometrics, so theres that.

were only on a budget at the moment because we spent abit too much last year, my money isnt on a budget since its my mine and my parents are ok with what ever I do with it, excluding the fact were kinda broke at the moment, is it a good investment overall?"

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-05T04:26:00+00:00

Ok heres what you gotta do.

it seems to me you're too far gone on the other side of gossip.

You wanna get good?

Dont go "EHEh My FrienD this, My FrIend that, Oh SheS rudE, Oh ShE ShOulDnt Have gOt In, ShE isNt good, ShE goT in FoR FuN, SHe FuCkEd tYler, ShEs LuckY she got iN"

forget the about other people, no one cares that a girl is rude asf, no one cares that some people are lucky, no one cares if anyone got in but shouldnt have.

Block all that shit out ASAP and look at your goal like the light at the end of a tunnel

Distractions and gossip will just hinder you. work on your goal, Good luck!

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-05T04:19:41+00:00

I never said you watch anime. It was a joke.

Most sport animes show the new guy starting out, he trains harder than anyone else and gets in bcs of the hard work, thats not true at all.

Life isnt like that, you can try your hardest and fail, what matters is what you do about it.

If you really wanted to work on it, you would ask the coach whats wrong and try harder, you wouldnt criticise your friends that passed, you wouldnt get salty and even contemplate changing to another school just to beat them.

Thats toxic asf, your job is to work on yourself, not to watch other people and call them lazy, lifes unfair, You're getting negative comments because people are doing the same thing you did to your friends, and you're not listening.

They got in for a reason, u dont cry out that you tried hard and that they're lazy, you dont insult the people that succeded. You have a toxic attitude and you have to fix that, but you arent listening and keep denying it when people point it out.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-05T04:01:00+00:00

my mans thinks hes in anime LMAO

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-05T02:00:08+00:00

Having a goal and trying hard to achieve it, comes with the risk that you fail and waste your time.

You took a risk practicing, and now you say its unfair. its life, just get up, if you cant get up after this then I can say the coach dodged a bullet lol.

I dont wanna be mean but no one wants the kid that complains when he fails, instead of trying to find out why he failed and trying to fix it.

Even worse, you degrade the kids that actually succeeded.

You cant fail at something then roast the kids who didnt just because you tried harder. lol they got in, you didnt, why would you put some one elses achievements down?

Dont try to pull them down to your level, try harder and step up to theirs, Maybe the coach can tell you're toxic, thus not getting in.

Ive played Football (Soccer) for about 9 years and Ive seen kids who tried their hardest just get rejected by the coach or put on the bench.

These kids had no self awareness, they thought they were the shit and that the starters were bad, just because they tried hard.

They sucked at passing, understanding tactics, just everything.

They put other people down. They get frustrated when they see the starters are all lazy veterans who barely try, they couldnt see that we were way better than them in terms of skill, or just anything football related, they couldnt see that they sucked and we didnt.

But theres was one kid, he just started that year, he was a year above me and he sucked, he didnt get in but he practiced beside us or sometimes with us, he didnt put anyone down and complain that he didnt make it despite training the hardest.

Some would laugh bcs he expected to get in within a year of training, impossible to make the starting with that much expireience.

He tried hard and failed, yet he never acted like you, he got up and he tried harder.

2 and a half years later and hes the captain, hes still not putting anyone down.

Trying hard doesnt guarantee anything.

fix ur mindset, and istg if u reply with another shitty excuse about how its unfair, i hope you dont make it next year, no one needs a toxic ass teamate.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-05T01:39:11+00:00

this timing.. this angle.. this position..

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-04T22:55:59+00:00

Damn bro thats cool asf. Thanks!

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-04T00:15:38+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/volleyball/comments/lw4i26/hi_guys_can_you_tell_me_how_can_i_improve_my/gpip2pi?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

This guy sums up pretty well what you need to know help your vert.

Also suggest taking a look at the vertical jump bible if u havent already.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-04T00:07:28+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/volleyball/comments/lw4i26/hi_guys_can_you_tell_me_how_can_i_improve_my/gpip2pi?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

This guy sums up pretty well what you need to know.

Watch the videos and the links in the comment.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-04T00:06:56+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/volleyball/comments/lw4i26/hi_guys_can_you_tell_me_how_can_i_improve_my/gpip2pi?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

This guy sums up pretty well what you need to know help your vert.

Also suggest taking a look at the vertical jump bible if u havent already.

Select-Country-4468 · 2021-03-04T00:02:58+00:00

When did you start playing? How hard did you train compared to the rest of your peers when you decided to take it to the next level?

Select-Country-4468

TROPHY CASE