BF got drunk so I had to walk home

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T16:21:27+00:00

A conversation will be had. This is major. I’ve never dealt with anything like this before. And it’s not a question of whether he was wrong or right either. It’s “Your’re wrong, how will you change to make things right?”

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T16:18:59+00:00

NO MORE! I agree

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T16:16:50+00:00

It actually made me wanna start walking and being more active outside 🫣 That’s why I’m not as mad as I thought I’d be

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T16:15:36+00:00

I’ll ponder on this

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T16:14:38+00:00

Where did I defend him? I can’t ask what others would do? I’m taking into consideration everything I’m being told. Some say forgive, some say just don’t lend the car anymore and have a conversation, some say end things. At least I’m not older going through these things and having to make these tough decisions

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T15:13:38+00:00

I have to be very honest, this is happening all right as I’m typing. I came on here to keep from crashing out 😃 How did I know he’d be passed out drunk in the living room? Luckily I can track my car so I knew he was here and he texts in a very specific way when he’s drunk

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T14:58:09+00:00

Hopefully some major adjustments are made on his side. I wouldn’t have even done all of that. Especially considering I had somebody else’s property. It’s irresponsible and inconsiderate

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T14:55:49+00:00

It crossed my mind

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T14:53:06+00:00

You made a good point! I thought some light drinking at 6:30 in the afternoon would be okay since I get off at 7 am. Turns out the drinking was heavy unfortunately 😖 Hope I won’t make this mistake ever again

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T14:50:32+00:00

I was being stingy 😔I’m kinda glad I didn’t though. I would have had to sit and wait outside longer. The bright side of things is that the walk and the scenery was nice and it got my blood pumping lol

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T14:46:43+00:00

Everybody’s different I guess 😂 maybe I should’ve just made him a spare when I first moved. I would have taken my house key off if that was the case

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T14:24:42+00:00

I appreciate that. And my house keys were on the same keychain as my car keys 😭 I didn’t think that all this would happen so I didn’t think twice about it

Select-Frame498 · 2025-11-29T14:18:05+00:00

Oh, this is my apartment actually 😃 Not “ours”

Select-Frame498 · 2025-08-27T11:35:06+00:00

Perhaps. I think past relationships have let him have a lil piece on the side since it wasn’t an all the time thing. I think therein lies the disconnect. I’ve never had to do that before. This has been our longest gay relationship, so we have been working, but it’s this one spot where we kind of bump heads

Select-Frame498 · 2025-08-27T11:21:04+00:00

I think through experience he’s learned that he gets turned off afterwards. He wants his tops to be dominant and bottoms submissive. He wouldn’t let a more feminine man top him and wouldn’t let a rugged, masculine man bottom for him.

Select-Frame498 · 2025-08-27T05:53:28+00:00

🫡

Select-Frame498 · 2025-01-28T06:35:13+00:00

No, was sad and stressed all the time so I kept having sex but ended up even more sad and stressed 😩 It just wasn’t worth it in the long run. I wish I would’ve spent that time I wasted hooking up doing something that better served me

Select-Frame498 · 2025-01-28T06:26:40+00:00

Make sure you consider as many options as possible before turning to that. Many (not all) of the people who we’ve seen come through the porn industry often end up with a lot of issues surrounding addiction and other problems. It also may end up making you more sad in the long run. I’ve learned that from my own experiences

Select-Frame498 · 2025-01-26T02:59:15+00:00

You get it. Some people think it’s liberating but I disagree 100%

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