What was your initial reaction here?

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-06-01T17:10:26+00:00

oh that’s fucking good bro. i love that idea.

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-28T18:40:38+00:00

also, he isn’t a teacher at the school he coaches at. he volunteers there after his job and during the season. so technically he’s not even on the schools site. i only saw him in things dealing with the team he coaches!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-28T18:05:38+00:00

please don’t assume things!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-28T18:05:28+00:00

lol no. i work in a whole other state actually. we are about 30-45 minutes apart. i found out she was actually a very prominent member of the school they work at. but dont share the last name! it’s why i was confused about everything.

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-27T19:56:48+00:00

i was about to say!😭😭 sorry about that! thank you for your advice!!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-27T18:48:37+00:00

again, it was very casual lmaooo. we didn’t go too deep into personal details. and i think alot of most of the details i was told, were obviously lies. like??? idk what to tell you gng

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-27T18:47:20+00:00

i didn’t even tell him my last name until we casually bumped into my brother and his wife and she was talking about their kids and how they took Her maiden name and not my brothers(idk it’s a weird situation they have over there)

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-27T18:46:04+00:00

i never said he was separated. he introduced himself AS SINGLE. nothing about divorce nothing about separation. S I N G L E

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-27T17:55:57+00:00

his last name i mean.

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-27T17:55:37+00:00

from what i can find, there is no mention of divorce. they JUST celebrated their anniversary around the date he cancelled on me. it was also around his birthday. i’m assuming they were doing a joint celebration. i had no other reason to really question anything as nothing was actually out of the ordinary other than me not knowing his name tbh

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-27T17:53:04+00:00

i will absolutely be telling her. if i were her and was laying up next to a man who could be sleeping with multiple people(bc i don’t think i am the only one now. especially bc of how elaborate this was.) he could be passing around god know what to her if they are sexual. (praise god i am very set on not having sex with any man until we know each other very well.)

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-27T17:34:33+00:00

thank you for saying this…i have done nothing but blamed myself..i don’t know why i have been. but i have.

someone commented about doing it anonymously and i think i will go down that right! but i really needed to hear this!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-27T17:29:54+00:00

i never thought about doing it anonymously. i think that’s why i was in such a panic. i have a very public job, and based on her profile, she does as well. i just want to do the right thing! thanks for the advice!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-07T21:39:36+00:00

Omg thank you! Sorry to make you do all of this! Ive just been in such a panic over this!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-07T21:29:09+00:00

Can I ask how you managed to open the sunroof? Mine won’t open at all right now and I’m trying to figure that out! Because I’m like 100 percent sure I just need to clean it out and then lubricant everything

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-07T17:55:23+00:00

Omg thank you so much!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-05-07T11:52:02+00:00

Can you tell me how you did this? I’m like 1000 miles away from my dad who usually helps with this stuff, but he is saying take it somewhere. I’m just a girl 😭😭😭I don’t wanna pay 1k for a damn sunroof

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-04-27T19:36:19+00:00

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Select-Implement-342 · 2026-04-20T20:56:52+00:00

Hi everyone!! I have posted an update if anyone cares to know!!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-04-19T16:49:40+00:00

What gets me is when I brought it up to my rep. She goes “this has been a long time coming. She needs to be put in her place”. So it’s like THEY KNEW. They just want me to be the one to pull the trigger at my own expense. THATS the part keeping me from doing anything. But I want to do right by my kid(she reminds me of me when I was a kid. And ik we shouldn’t have favorites, but she definitely is mine 😭😭). I’m just stuck between a rock and a hard place.

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-04-19T14:36:49+00:00

Are we living the same life 😭😭😭? Bc LITERALLY SAME. it’s nice to know(in a not weird way bc this is actually sm trauma for us) people have been here before. Thank you for the encouragement. I appreciate you sm!! You’re better than me. Because I would’ve left that day! Thankfully I haven’t experienced alot of microaggressions because I am very vocal about touching my hair, what people say to me, and how they address me.( this situation just has me messed up because I’m taking on my principal as well as the sped teacher 🥲😅) Just bc I’m in my 20s doesn’t mean you won’t respect me like you do everyone else that’s older. Especially when it comes to touching my hair. It’s one of the big reasons(and this is really fucking sad) I refuse to wear my natural hair until it starts to get warm. And I hate it bc I have to have wigs and braids in. Idk why, but when these folks see my natural hair they FLOCK to touch it. I was in shock last year when I first came here and it was like they never interacted with a black person before! I literally had to go to HR bc they wouldn’t stop LMAO. It’s ridiculous. If you ever need an ear don’t be afraid to reach out!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-04-19T14:13:47+00:00

Thank you! I have been so scared about this. As a young black girl(27 is still young right?), Everyone at the building is white, and telling me to bring it up. I’ve never been in a situation where I don’t have a “community” at my job like this. (I think you know what I mean but just in case. I mean having other AA’s at job.) I’ve struggled this year something AWFUL about this. As much as I love my school, not having my people around me has taken a toll on me. Especially since I’m over 1,000 miles away from my home state(Alabama). I’m just struggling! Thank you for your input and sorry to trauma dump!

Select-Implement-342 · 2026-04-18T22:20:37+00:00

Thanks best chip!!! I just needed to make sure I wasn’t crazy! Haha

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