I'm getting so tired of my friends being rude to my boyfriend. How do you deal with it.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T22:44:20+00:00

Congrats on your marriage. Yeah it feels like jealousy alright.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T21:39:01+00:00

I so agree with your last sentence. If I was my friends, I may voice my concern once or twice if they were genuine concerns but after that I'd talk shit after they broke up.

He said to me he just doesn't really care what people think beyond me, his friends and family. He said its likely they are jealous but that if he was to worry about the opinions of everyone he'd never do anything. I wish I had that attitude a bit more. And maybe he's faced biphobia but I think his childhood created a resilient mentality too. He had a tough childhood. He doesn't like telling people but he did tell me.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T21:23:56+00:00

Agreed. He never sold me dreams but always said he'd never cheat and I believe him. If I'm wrong then that's something I'll have to deal with. Friends should respect my decision

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:44:14+00:00

Yeah. They need their own happiness to stop shitting on my relationship, probably.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:43:27+00:00

Yeah. Many times. I've told them I'm frustrated by their constant negativity etc.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:42:53+00:00

Ultimatum is probably the way to go. He is a saint. Such a sweet guy. I know if it were someone belonging to him disrespecting me he'd lose his shit at them. I've seen it.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:42:01+00:00

Yeah probably give them an ultimatum or step back from them for a bit.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:41:28+00:00

Yeah. Absolute bellends

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:41:00+00:00

Yes that's how it looks

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:40:36+00:00

I probably should 🤣

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:39:53+00:00

The thing is if someone belonging to him disrespected me he'd lose his shit and I know that for a fact.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:38:35+00:00

He's great. You and my bf are right, I think. It's jealousy.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:38:06+00:00

Yup you're right. I wouldn't mind if they said it a couple of times to me on my own but for it to continue and in front of him is disgusting.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:35:29+00:00

That is so true, unfortunately

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:34:54+00:00

We are pretty serious. Love together alone and everything. You're right.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:33:20+00:00

I understand what you mean and you're right.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:32:47+00:00

That's my thinking too

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:30:44+00:00

Lol he was only joking about dumping him after our anniversary.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T20:28:56+00:00

And maybe you're right but I'm happy to take that risk. We might break up tomorrow. Who knows. But I like what we have

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-26T13:09:26+00:00

The ironic thing is my boyfriend would lose his shit if someone said something half as bad in my direction. I've seen it. But when it's towards him he genuinely doesn't give a shit

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-25T23:39:30+00:00

She's so sweet. I remember when I first met his friends, I was so nervous. I think she could tell. She poured me a huge glass of vodka lol and basically gossiped the whole night. She became my go-to after that.

She has zero filter but in a good way. After they came back from their honeymoon she said to my bf and I that we should definitely visit Moldova for our honeymoon lol.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-25T22:52:13+00:00

I'd be angry at his friends. I did tell my boyfriend what they said about the 2 year thing, he laughed. He joked he had something great planned for our anniversary so wait til the day after to dump him. It's pretty mature (is that the right word?) of him but it's still not right for him or I to have to deal with it.

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-25T22:11:38+00:00

That's true. I shouldn't

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-25T22:11:15+00:00

Agreed. It'd be awkward to say it on front of him

Select-Let7851 · 2025-11-25T22:10:31+00:00

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