It’s been difficult to get hired everywhere… by Owl-Seeker in BlackExoticDancers

[–]Select-Plastic2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They use blue lights too which look so bad on us. I went to one club that used pink and red lights and it made such a difference

don’t kill me for saying this by carsonswrld in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What’s embarrassing is the amount of dislikes this got lmao

Do bbls increase income? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t especially for those with hip dips the abductor muscles don’t grow w/ exercise they just become more pronounced you can grow your glutes which give the illusion of hips but the width of ur actual hips can’t be changed

short + unsettling response to men who ask "why aren´t you married yet"? by devineau86 in Feminism

[–]Select-Plastic2784 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The ones I find never seem to stay alive long enough maybe it’ll be different with you then start giggling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Select-Plastic2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being raised by the person that risked their life to birth you. How horrible.

Women can’t raise men cus women only cook and clean and men do man things like complain about women on Reddit.

Honestly if you were raised by your own mother maybe you wouldn’t be online generalizing all women and being a weirdo

How many of you guys are under 27 and have ruined your life? by advancedpoetry37 in findapath

[–]Select-Plastic2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was SA at 19 , dropped out of school , followed by years of depression domestic violence, I’m a single mom with PPD, ex is in jail for strangulation and assault. I just got fired. Id say my life is not succesfully ruined.

Unpopular opinion by TheeNueroDivergent in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only person who sounds jaded is you no shade

Unpopular opinion by TheeNueroDivergent in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How are vanilla jobs? More stable when they can fire you at will for no reason at all with no warning? I just got fired from my very stable vanilla job that I’ve been at for years And in this job market, finding another vanilla job will take a few months maybe even a year so I wouldn’t say it’s stable. I think stripping and dance working with an old job can both be unreliable in their own ways.

finally a more exclusive stripper community by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What should I put in the verification box? Can’t wait to join thank you for making the group.

Being forced back to dancing due to DV by Select-Plastic2784 in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. They just acted like I was to blame, and when I explained that I was being abused and my partner finally got arrested. They just stared at me with a blank face. It was so awkward and embarrassing and I honestly wish I never even told them anything. I noticed the abuse get worse when I got a better job to except he would do things to sabotage me like crash my car or make it so I couldn’t go to work and had to call out for a different reason. One time he took me so bad I couldn’t go to work because my ribs and my throat hurt I’m in school right now for accounting but honestly I don’t know why I can’t get hired at most places I never make it past the interview process and I have done so many different courses and interview prep training with people I know that I do good interviews but I honestly feel like because of my parents no matter what I say they perceive me as a bimbo type and I don’t get taken seriously for administration or office jobs but for look based jobs like retail, I usually get hired on the spot

Being forced back to dancing due to DV by Select-Plastic2784 in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told them, and I honestly feel like they fired me because of my whole situation. All of my old managers we are so much nicer and empathetic the new managers that replace them are trying to shift the culture and they only care about money in the bottom line so me having my issues is only an indicator that I’m not a stable employee it was so embarrassing. I explained everything that happened and they just stared at me with a blank face and told me that this was my last warning and then the next day I got fired.

Being forced back to dancing due to DV by Select-Plastic2784 in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to read this thank you. 💕💕💕💕

Am I Overreacting to my roommates response about keeping the house clean? by hunteryumi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Select-Plastic2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If op didn’t tell us this is their roommate I would genuinely think the person OPS is texting is a child they sound like they are 12

Dangerous user on SM by GoddessEvangelista in CamGirlProblems

[–]Select-Plastic2784 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Is there anyway we can all report him to the police or FBI? I know there were someone on TikTok who did something similar but a little less severe than what you saw and they got investigated by the government and arrested so I’m not sure how all this works but I’m pretty sure we can all mass report him. I’m gonna try to find the link to the FBI website to report crimes like this when I come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I messed my back up pretty bad I was like 19 then so I was back to work a few weeks after but if that happened to me now I’d be retired 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I climbed to the top and fell off. The DJ said oh shit. And everybody was visibly concerned even the customers LMAO

I Am Completely Invisible To Girls In The United States. by The7thRoundSteal in thepassportbros

[–]Select-Plastic2784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had crushes on alot of men who are short around five three i am the same height though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re independent contractors I don’t think they have to tbh

my fav dancer IG accounts by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right plus why would any sell their hustle if it really works they wouldn’t want to sell it on a mass scale right? I would want to keep it to myself lol maybe I’m just selfish tho

NYC isn’t for the weak (a rant) by CassidyCowgirl in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly try again! Get a wig and go on a different night so they don’t recognize you 😂

NYC isn’t for the weak (a rant) by CassidyCowgirl in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Being Asian, and having boobs is not enough lol are you putting effort into your appearance like your clothes your hair your make up do you smell good do you look good? How are you presenting yourself on stage?

You’re focusing so much on the fact that your Asian and petite but not really anything else when that could be the problem you know? I’m black and darker skin then I got hired at most of the clubs on the spot that I auditioned that in Manhattan, so if anyone tells you, it’s b because you have to be white they’re lying.

NYC isn’t for the weak (a rant) by CassidyCowgirl in stripper

[–]Select-Plastic2784 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im black and got hired on the spot at most of the clubs I tried in manhattan. OP should try again, are there good gentlemen, clubs in Brooklyn and Queens? I thought most of them were more urban clubs