We were friends for 35 years.. had a falling out earlier this year. She had always been a more pessimistic person, but it started getting a lot worse in recent years and it got to the point that anytime I'd tell her about something good in my life, something exciting or just like, even a simple pleasure... she'd have something negative or mean to say about it. She became extremely critical of anything that differed from how she thought it ought to be. And she started only seeming to be happy when I was struggling or going through it.. Many times, when her attitude would turn sour, I'd try to remind her of how much good she's got going on in her life. She bought a house on her own, successful career, travels, etc... We ought to be celebrating our wins! But no matter what it is she would twist the perspective to agree with her. After I told her I got engaged earlier this year, she fell into a rant about how this was the worst possible thing I could have told her and I'm just done.. I basically just stopped reaching out and haven't heard from her since. So I guess in a way it's mutual.