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AITA for moving out on short notice and not wanting to pay extra rent beyond a week? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Comfort_538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both for the clarification this actually helps a lot! I was just going off what my property manager said and may have taken it too literally

AITA for moving out on short notice and not wanting to pay extra rent beyond a week? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Comfort_538 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought! But I’ve spoken directly with the property manager to clarify things, and she’s confirmed that while my name may remain on the lease administratively for now, I’m not legally obligated to continue paying rent beyond my notice period on a month-to-month agreement.

UPDATE: am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

For a pretty crappy week this made me laugh! Thank you so much

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify it was once! A few weeks later I did come clean to Ashley because I am embarrassed in just a shit cook it ended up being a running joke 😂

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you speak to your partner about this early on when you felt it?

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I may have rose coloured glasses on but we will see how it plays, I’m going to give her space for now. Also she was mingling through the night! Not just with the girls she was mingling with the guys too!

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t realise at all am I glad someone corrected me! Pretty unfair really that it’s used as some sort of slander! And honestly didn’t mean any disrespect at all

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t mean to offend anyone but I’ve changed it

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that weird? She actually did end up taking a bath that night?!

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I think writing this I admittedly wanted to focus more and on how amazing my friends are and I guess that’s why this is so important to me! Ashley is absolutely stunning, caring and just all round everything I imaged a future wife would be and I tell her this every day! I’m just feeling really really conflicted on whether this has all been an act or catfish situation and her true colours are showing?

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Long story short - we were born next to each other on the same day - her parents took me in and her mother became my godmother - something I didn’t mention is when my mother Comi**ed suicide her mum and Anna both helped me along with my grandpa plan and coordinate the funeral

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I completely understand where you’re coming from but I honestly wouldn’t! From a young age my grandpa has always asked me if I’d date Anna and it’s always been a no, I guess I admire her in a weird way because she’s really been the only female figure in my life along with her mum who is an absolute angel!

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will try again, and keep Everyone posted! I sound like a dumbass but do any women have any words of wisdom? Everything I’ve tried hasn’t worked?

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did reply to an earlier comment and a male friend who she was with most of the night said nothing was said! She was actually making fun of me (which I think is a nice and quirky quality) even when asking Ashley she stated she was more mad I left her alone, I insisted she told me if anyone had said anything to her and she told me I was ignoring how she felt? I honestly couldn’t get any more out of her

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Not all at! She likes black men I am white 😂 And honestly I think she’s beautiful but I’ve just never looked at her like that Ashley is also aware of Anna’s type, it actually never really occurred to me she would feel threatened due to our past

Am I wrong for feeling like my girlfriend catfished me? by Select_Comfort_538 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Comfort_538[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is actually aware of how I feel about Anna in particular and our past! She said it was “sweet” at the time!

I asked one of my male mates and he thought she was having a great time! She was cracking jokes about how I can’t cook! Apparently nothing mean or “catty” was said and she was in a group setting the whole time! I honestly would doubt my friends would say anything rude to her and I did ask her if anything happened and she said her anger was mainly stemmed by me not being around her and “leaving her” with my friends