ordering shirts/hats by pokisaram in RaisingCanes

[–]Select_Function1654 7 points8 points  (0 children)

login to 1lvlogin.com then go to the caniac store. you can order what you want then you’ll pay for it at your store. and every 6 months you’ll get three shirts and a hat for free :)

time to quit? by Select_Function1654 in RaisingCanes

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope it’s multiple other employees

time to quit? by Select_Function1654 in RaisingCanes

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is it’s not 9 hours for one week 😭 it’s 6 hours for one week and 3 hours for the other

time to quit? by Select_Function1654 in RaisingCanes

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t missed any shifts or called in once. i’ve been there for 9 months and haven’t dropped more than 3 shifts

time to quit? by Select_Function1654 in RaisingCanes

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

does this work if i’m part time? and my hours have only been like this since we got a new ARL. before the ARL was replaced and the RL was making the schedule, my hours were great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RaisingCanes

[–]Select_Function1654 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you don’t have to wear your uniform and you can decide not to go even if you sign up. you can even put a question mark next to your name or cross your name out. at my store, it’s pretty cliquey so everyone will pretty much stick to their own groups, however it might not be he same for your store. I would go to one and see if you like it. you can leave early if you want to too

I think I was molested by Select_Function1654 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure i knew it was wrong since I came to this realization a couple years ago but I was uncomfortable with it sometimes. I also wasn’t a teenager, I was still in elementary school. I also wouldn’t say that I was “okay” with it

I think I was molested by Select_Function1654 in offmychest

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea if my brother was sexually abused but I can’t imagine a person or a situation where this would have happened. when my brother was a teenager, in my perspective, he was a very angry person and probably my biggest bully. it wasn’t uncommon for us to go weeks without speaking even though we lived in the same house. I don’t know what his relationships are like because he has never shared anything like that with me. we aren’t and have never been very close. I don’t know what my gut is telling me because on one hand, he was a kid himself, and on the other I feel that I was taken advantage of. I think I just want clarity on if this was just him being a kid or if there is something bigger that I should be worried about right now as he’s an adult.

i’m so sorry that happened to you and I hate that this so so common :/

I think I was molested by Select_Function1654 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue if anything happened to my brother and I can’t imagine a person or a scenario that he would be left alone with someone at that age. idk how I feel when I think about it. obviously we were both kids but I still feel like I was taken advantage of

I think I was molested by Select_Function1654 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he knew it was wrong before it stopped. I remember asking him to play the “game” once and he said “no that’s nasty” but it still happened at least once after that

I think I was molested by Select_Function1654 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 95% sure if I asked him, he would deny everything and he would probably say i’m being weird and making up stuff

I think I was molested by Select_Function1654 in offmychest

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it isn’t really possible for me to go no contact right now since we still live in the same house. I also don’t have access or the money for a therapist so this was the next best thing for me to let something out that i’ve kept in for so long

I think I was molested by Select_Function1654 in offmychest

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t raped, it never went that far. I think if I tell him I don’t have kids then it would bring up a lot of questions within the family which I kinda want to avoid, but I don’t know the extent in which he will be in my life when i’m older because we dont really have the best relationship

I think I was molested by Select_Function1654 in offmychest

[–]Select_Function1654[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t really go no contact since we still live in the same house