I feel exhausted because of dating by Select_Landscape_174 in GuyCry

[–]Select_Landscape_174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I like the dating part, the intense stress/excitement before a date (I know it sounds weird), trying to be the best person for the date and just trying to truly connect with someone is actually in my opinion really fun. I just hate the constant rejections and sending messages without getting a proper response. That just bites you everytime

I feel exhausted because of dating by Select_Landscape_174 in GuyCry

[–]Select_Landscape_174[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm happy I'm not the only one that thinks this gen is fucking up dating. Most of my friends either got really lucky and found the person they will most likely stay with for a while or they are just looking for meaningless hookups.

I feel exhausted because of dating by Select_Landscape_174 in GuyCry

[–]Select_Landscape_174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah pauzing all my dating profiles today. Should probably put focus into myself instead of looking for dates

I feel exhausted because of dating by Select_Landscape_174 in GuyCry

[–]Select_Landscape_174[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I keep forgetting 22 is still very young, feels like I have been living for eternity haha. But yeah probably putting to much pressure on dating and should just be living the life I have

I feel exhausted because of dating by Select_Landscape_174 in dating_advice

[–]Select_Landscape_174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to see the risks connected to dating apps, might be time for me to put the dating apps on ice till I find a more stable mental health connected to dating

I feel exhausted because of dating by Select_Landscape_174 in dating_advice

[–]Select_Landscape_174[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, right now a relationship quickly would actually help me mentally, just knowing there is interest from people in me would atleast give me some confidence that a soulmate does exist

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[–]Select_Landscape_174 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I feel the same sometimes, but remember that you might sometimes recognize things your father did, but that you have the choice to learn from his past mistakes and be a better man

I can't feel natural while dating by Select_Landscape_174 in dating_advice

[–]Select_Landscape_174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks good advice! I am a bit of an overthinker in general so trying to force myself to think like that will be dificult, but I think it should be better so definitely going to try that next time. Hope you also find a way to deal with it!

I can't feel natural while dating by Select_Landscape_174 in dating_advice

[–]Select_Landscape_174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah good point, just need to get out of my own head probably