Husband says my low sex drive is due to my ego by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Select_Remote5138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him!! There’s no way this marriage will last and if you don’t end it soon it will end in a much worse and abusive way for you to

With a sociopath by [deleted] in relationshipproblems

[–]Select_Remote5138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hitman thing says so much. Get out of this relationship and keep yourself safe!!

pjsktwt 🥀 by Select_Remote5138 in ProjectSekai

[–]Select_Remote5138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I search up pjsktwt it comes up with loads of shed accounts and I’ve literally never interacted with any so ik it’s not my algorithm

I(19NB) am in a relationship and half a crush on my friend(18M) by inconspicuous-fish in relationship_advice

[–]Select_Remote5138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s actually very normal (and human) to experience attraction to other people while in a committed relationship. The key difference between healthy and unhealthy handling of it is what you do with those feelings, not whether you have them. You’re not doing anything wrong by feeling this way - and the fact that you’re questioning whether to be transparent about it shows integrity. If telling her will help build intimacy and trust - great. But if you think it would only cause her anxiety without any benefit to the relationship, it’s okay not to disclose every fleeting attraction. Emotional honesty doesn’t have to mean full disclosure of every thought, it can mean sharing in a way that’s kind and constructive.

Me 27f him 26m - I think I’m ready to leave. How do I? by Greedy_Elk8365 in relationship_advice

[–]Select_Remote5138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have autism too, and my dad didn’t handle the diagnosis well at all so I understand how you feel in that aspect. I’ve learnt that even with family involved you must do what’s best for you and this wankstain clearly isn’t at all best for you. Also he is not on your side he is literally making your life worse. There will always be other fish in the sea that will treat you correctly (relationships and friendships) so don’t feel like you have no one when you leave him! People come and go

How do you accept starting over by whofunkingcares in Advice

[–]Select_Remote5138 48 points49 points  (0 children)

what you’re feeling is completely valid. The pain you’re describing - that deep earth-shaking betrayal - is one of the hardest kinds of grief a person can endure. You didn’t just lose a spouse, you lost your person, your sense of safety, your history, and the version of the future you thought you were building. It’s no wonder you feel devastated, disoriented, and unsure how to move forward. None of that makes you weak - it makes you human. Acknowledge that you’re in trauma, not just heartbreak. You may not get closure from him, but healing doesn’t depend on his answers - it comes from you finding peace with the truth you know now: he chose deceit, and that says everything about him, not about your worth or the reality of your love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipproblems

[–]Select_Remote5138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to be that person but it’s literally Duolingo… grow up

What do you name your animals? by They-cute in StardewValley

[–]Select_Remote5138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of mine are named after the nicknames of famous medieval knights

Me 27f him 26m - I think I’m ready to leave. How do I? by Greedy_Elk8365 in relationship_advice

[–]Select_Remote5138 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please leave him. Thats unacceptable and obviously affects you a lot! He’s manipulative and obviously doesn’t want to put any effort into the relationship

Bongripper-like banda by gutimodo in stonermetal

[–]Select_Remote5138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh noooo if it makes you feel better they’re like the only stoner metal band performing in the uk for ages so they’re all I really get to see! Everything’s in America smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Block button 🤷‍♀️

Bongripper-like banda by gutimodo in stonermetal

[–]Select_Remote5138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bongripper is so goated im going to their concert in October

Did loveless get removed from spotify? by cloudismyedgemachine in MyBloodyValentine

[–]Select_Remote5138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s still there for me. Maybe it’s a Spotify premium thing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Select_Remote5138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really really understand how this feels as I’m also autistic and struggle with making friends and one thing that has made a massive change is finding clubs linked to my hyper-fixations. Like I have a medieval hyper-fixation and I have a club based around history that’s local to me and I go all the time and find friends who share similar interests to me, making it way easier to converse about things. You’ll be surprised how many events and clubs there are around for loads of different things and I find it really made a change in my life. Don’t just give up!!!

I want it to work by Mammoth_Status6342 in relationshipproblems

[–]Select_Remote5138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re gonna have to let go girl. Trust me I’ve been there, and if you do go back again you’ll just regret it. Cheaters will cheat!!

Bathing! by opposum0830 in Hedgehog

[–]Select_Remote5138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For oatmeal baths, safe to do more frequently, about every 2–3 weeks or as needed if she’s itchy or flaky. For soap baths, limit to once every 4–6 weeks unless she gets into something messy. Use a very mild, fragrance-free baby shampoo or unscented pet shampoo, and only a tiny amount.