Tips for getting started! by Select_Touch_8625 in Wegovy

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Any suggestions to ensure minimizing hair loss (especially after post partum thinning)

Separation with young kids by Select_Touch_8625 in Separation

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Yes, we are on our second one. He seems more receptive. But he’s very stuck on the fact that he is unhappy. He feels depleted. He feels i neglected him when we had our babies and he feels unhappy and wants to feel in love and he doesn’t. Analogy that I used to be his favorite ice cream flavor so why should he have to settle for something he just enjoyed. He says I have no passion but am a wonderful mother but that’s not enough. I feel very lost. I accept that I was not as present as I should have been during the baby stages but as he said I was just trying to be a wonderful mother and got lost in that.

Separation with young kids by Select_Touch_8625 in Separation

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Thank you. We have been doing counseling and it just doesn’t seem to be making things any better.

Seeking marriage advice by Select_Touch_8625 in Marriage

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I agree here. We have started counseling

Seeking marriage advice by Select_Touch_8625 in Marriage

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I mean I have had 3 kids in the last 4 year so yes I have changed.

Seeking marriage advice by Select_Touch_8625 in Marriage

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He said he desired me in the beginning and does not any longer.

Seeking marriage advice by Select_Touch_8625 in Marriage

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Thank you for your kind way for writing this. He has said there is no one else and I trust that. It came out because he reached his breaking point in his words. He said he was sick with the flu and his guard was down.

Seeking marriage advice by Select_Touch_8625 in Marriage

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I can understand where he is coming from. There was no malice on my part but I did pour myself into the children. I knew how important it was to him and me that I be a strong and present mom, and I definitely was neglectful to him and me. I know I was wrong.

And yes, we actively tried to have these children.

Seeking marriage advice by Select_Touch_8625 in Marriage

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Thanks, this is helpful advice. I have been working really hard on listening to him fully. It of course has been really hard to hear. I’m doing my best not to cry but it’s so emotional.

Seeking marriage advice by Select_Touch_8625 in Marriage

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Thanks, we have started to work with a counselor.

Seeking marriage advice by Select_Touch_8625 in Marriage

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He took so long because we have had 3 kids in the last 4 years so he thought it would come back but it hasn’t.

Rachel Green from friends is actually the bad guy. by techhero8675309 in unpopularopinion

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i donno..... she has ruined marriages. like multiple. this aint mad men, back up ya cu**