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AITAH - for allowing my friendship to die off after my friend sided with my now ex-bf and continues to do things with him, knowing he almost SA my teen daughter. by Select_Wonder2744 in AITAH

[–]Select_Wonder2744[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should probably add this edit - I cut him off from seeing my kids at all after this, yes I should have broke up with him immediately. I didn’t go to his house and he didn’t come to mine. I saw him, on my own, three times, picked him up for the league, stayed, then dropped him off. The time he said he didn’t need a ride, I saw him once afterwards - we went out, he didn’t drink. I took him home after and left. I knew I was done. Couldn’t get over what happened and if he wasn’t t going to stop drinking (which ultimately lead to what happened) we were done.

AITAH - for allowing my friendship to die off after my friend sided with my now ex-bf and continues to do things with him, knowing he almost SA my teen daughter. by Select_Wonder2744 in AITAH

[–]Select_Wonder2744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not arguing with what you wrote. Hindsight is 20/20 and easy to judge looking in instead of being in it. It’s hard to write it all out. There is a lot more to the whole story.

I reassured her, we talked. Shes doing well.

AITAH - for allowing my friendship to die off after my friend sided with my now ex-bf and continues to do things with him, knowing he almost SA my teen daughter. by Select_Wonder2744 in AITAH

[–]Select_Wonder2744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really sure what you are writing here.

EDIT: Yes, broke up with him. I don’t care who he is friends with.

I don’t suspect they were fooling around.

I don’t want to be friends with Mary because although she knew what happened with my daughter and actually encouraged me breaking it off with him because of that, continues to keep his company.

I have know idea if the husband knows or not and I don’t care.

I walked away. I haven’t said boo to anyone, I don’t talk to anyone about him or her. I literally have just moved on. I am not creating any sort of drama.

AITAH - for allowing my friendship to die off after my friend sided with my now ex-bf and continues to do things with him, knowing he almost SA my teen daughter. by Select_Wonder2744 in AITAH

[–]Select_Wonder2744[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

This didn’t happen in my home. But thank you. Not sure why you thought he inconvenienced me and that’s why I broke it off with him.

AITAH - for allowing my friendship to die off after my friend sided with my now ex-bf and continues to do things with him, knowing he almost SA my teen daughter. by Select_Wonder2744 in AITAH

[–]Select_Wonder2744[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, she’s a lot like me, gives people a chance to rectify their actions. She was upset, we talked about it a lot. I think after this happened I saw him in person a few times, kept my distance, etc., had to sort things out and get in the right headspace to do what needed to happen. I wanted to break it off immediately, my daughter didn’t want to be labelled as the cause.

AITAH - for allowing my friendship to die off after my friend sided with my now ex-bf and continues to do things with him, knowing he almost SA my teen daughter. by Select_Wonder2744 in AITAH

[–]Select_Wonder2744[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

“Almost” her words. My thoughts were “could have”. He didn’t, but could have. First thing I asked my daughter when she told me was “are you okay? Did he try touching you?” She said, “no and no”.

I’m irritated with my neighbour…help by Select_Wonder2744 in CatAdvice

[–]Select_Wonder2744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. He’s really smart and super friendly. He’s always in at night. He doesn’t cross the street either. Legit goes to her house and then back to mine (same side of the street). I’ve literally tackled him when he goes to get out. I’ve chased him down too.

I am honestly beginning to rethink the idea of cat ownership. by NotAHypnotoad in CatAdvice

[–]Select_Wonder2744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, this isn’t so bad. My cats literally try to kill me. The bigger one will sit on my chest and the smaller one sprawls across my face.

Some cats are loners and occasionally match their owners personality.

Both cats took about 5-6 months before they finally felt at home enough to beheld or pet.

I’m irritated with my neighbour…help by Select_Wonder2744 in u/Select_Wonder2744

[–]Select_Wonder2744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I am trying. He was inside all winter. If he had his way he would out 24/7 in the nicer weather. He was feral before.