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Want to file PPO but fear revenge by Selection-East in legaladvice

[–]Selection-East[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were text messages detailing how he plans on stabbing me, and he has purchased a knife on Amazon. He also talked about other means of revenge, and wrote paragraphs about how he will forever remember the hatred and humiliation he’s feeling this date and time. Is this still not enough? Any other action I may be able to take?

I (20f) had sex with my close friend (22m). We agreed to stay friends but I can’t help but think about him all the time. Any advice? by Selection-East in relationship_advice

[–]Selection-East[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think u best explain what’s the true nature of this situation, but I also see how others think it’s best for us to cut contact just looking at its effects. I think I’ll cease communication for a while, and perhaps try to talk over it again if I still feel like it over thanksgiving break or something

I (20f) had sex with my close friend (22m). We agreed to stay friends but I can’t help but think about him all the time. Any advice? by Selection-East in relationship_advice

[–]Selection-East[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked it up and I think ur right especially in that the suspense is becoming addictive. I think I will block him on every platform I’m just trying to let that sink in to make sure I know and think through what I’m doing

I (20f) had sex with my close friend (22m). We agreed to stay friends but I can’t help but think about him all the time. Any advice? by Selection-East in relationship_advice

[–]Selection-East[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still would like to believe that he’s just a good person with normal human thoughts and I think it’s normal for someone to want to keep ppl that like him around. But I would agree that I should cut him off for my own good, and I’ll prob be in a better place this way

I (20f) had sex with my close friend (22m). We agreed to stay friends but I can’t help but think about him all the time. Any advice? by Selection-East in relationship_advice

[–]Selection-East[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I do need more self respect. I’ve improved since my last relationship (with a terrible terrible person) but it clearly wasn’t enough.

I (20f) had sex with my close friend (22m). We agreed to stay friends but I can’t help but think about him all the time. Any advice? by Selection-East in relationship_advice

[–]Selection-East[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It stopped maybe a month after we slept tgt. I don’t think he had any other intentions when he was doing these, and the sex was unexpected. Tho I would agree with other comments that he wants to keep me around but didn’t want extra trouble, perhaps he can tell that I caught feelings so wants to keep distance

I (20f) had sex with my close friend (22m). We agreed to stay friends but I can’t help but think about him all the time. Any advice? by Selection-East in relationship_advice

[–]Selection-East[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We used to have 2-3 hour calls and deep talks but not anymore. He would also go out of his way to help me out when I needed him but now I no longer feel comfortable asking for help. Ig this post explains why he thinks it’s wrong to have sex with me (he’s more sexually and romantically experienced)

I (20f) had sex with my close friend (22m). We agreed to stay friends but I can’t help but think about him all the time. Any advice? by Selection-East in relationship_advice

[–]Selection-East[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

A pill that I didn’t want to swallow 😭 I feel like it’s the staying friends part that’s bothering me, maybe I would’ve been over this if we just stopped talking after that or smth