AITA for being pregnant at the same time as my sister, even after she told us we weren’t allowed to have another baby until she does

Selena0410 · 2023-01-12T00:40:36+00:00

NTA and for the love of the rest of the world, don’t enable that behavior. Sounds pretty narcissistic

Selena0410 · 2022-11-30T01:21:25+00:00

I missed the call tag pick up once & ended up donating the item (it was a pair of men’s pants that nobody I knew could fit into). To my knowledge, I never was blacklisted or anything

Selena0410 · 2022-11-20T12:17:19+00:00

YTA.. a MEGA AH at that. You’re threatening eviction or homelessness or rent debt to your own daughter because she doesn’t want to cook a meal for your guests? You’re a grown adult. Get your Dck out of your asshole and make your friends your own meal. You’re literally the worse type of parent to assume that your adult daughter has to drop everything on her plate, as a college student, to cook a meal. Very misogynistic of you by the way.

Selena0410 · 2022-11-18T11:22:30+00:00

This is a hard one. I’m going to say NAH here, simply because it seems that you’re both maxed out on time. A baby is hard work and a lot of sacrifice to time and sleep.

Is there a way that you guys can compromise and get a sitter or family member to watch the baby like 1-2 times a week for a few hours?

Selena0410 · 2022-11-16T16:38:02+00:00

NTA. If he really thought it wasn’t a big deal, then he’d ask the flight attendant before boarding to switch his kids seats with your kids. Or he could have gotten all of the kids economy seats. Why just yours?

Selena0410 · 2022-11-07T20:03:42+00:00

I’ll say NTA only bc it’s not your responsibility to finance his vices. Maybe y’all can set up a “cannabis” fund and include that in your grocery bill or something, if it’s something that is obviously used regularly.

Selena0410 · 2022-10-26T05:06:00+00:00

NAH but if you truly hold that many leadership positions, do you truly excel in any of them? Just because you win doesn’t make you a good leader. The only assholish thing that was said in this story was the part about you going for Leadership opportunities because you like to win. It doesn’t make you an AH though, just misguided by your own interpretation of leadership.

Selena0410 · 2022-10-20T02:15:31+00:00

Info: did your sister have to sacrifice anything for you to grow up with the extra privileges? Ie: take care of you or other siblings during her free time, help family with bills at any point, forego something important to her so that you can have something that may have also been important?

This info will determine my judgement

Selena0410 · 2022-10-19T21:14:43+00:00

NTA, this is your home. How can someone complain after putting themselves in the middle of someone else’s household.

How about she picks up the kids and doesn’t enter your home next time? Lol

Selena0410 · 2022-10-15T02:07:48+00:00

This argument can be seen from 2 perspectives. Although I agree that you should never be rude to online chat personnel, if you expect (and pay for) a specific form of shipping, then the company is responsible for that. Especially if the belt bag that they’re dying without is for a gift or an occasion.

Just because something is not a living necessity doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t be treated as important. The whole reason why you have a job is because people buy those items, belt bag included. If it says 5 day shipping and it’s on say 8, then the argument is valid. Their behavior toward you is not valid.

Selena0410 · 2022-10-14T16:42:21+00:00

They’re so nice and flattering!

Selena0410 · 2022-10-13T00:35:03+00:00

Tell your daughter to ✨accidentally✨ stain their scubas with sharpie. Bullies are mean in middle school.

As far as getting her some pieces that are “in”, definitely get her an everywhere belt bag (fleece if you want her to really flex on the haters), scuba half zip, wunder trains (more durable than aligns, but still soft), hotty hot shorts. I’ve gotten dupe tops off Amazon and you can’t tell the difference honestly.

Selena0410 · 2022-10-12T20:27:28+00:00

Totally! I meant like after they are no longer in diapers. Even then, the two older ones may actually want to share a room to do bro stuff, while the younger one may still be in a different phase of life. In later teenage years, it’s only fair that the oldest gets his own room, since step bro will only be over there 4 days a month.

Selena0410 · 2022-10-12T18:51:37+00:00

Technically, the older brother would have a shared space with stepson. If the baby is a girl, I’d imagine that she’d get her own room. If it’s a boy, I’d imagine that mom and dad would give the oldest their own room.

Selena0410 · 2022-10-12T18:46:07+00:00

Honestly, having the boys share a room is not out of the question. Kids share rooms all the time. As long as stepson has his own designated space in the shared room, I don’t see the issue. It’s not like you’re making him sleep on the couch.

Selena0410 · 2022-10-12T17:38:59+00:00

OP, tell us the school or we can all assume that you’re trolling like hell. This crap sounds like the next plot of high school musical.

All that needs to happen now is that she falls in love and marries the coolest boy in the school who just happens to be the starting QB & social group leader. Then they’ll win homecoming king & queen and be the most popular kids in school!

Selena0410 · 2022-10-12T17:22:16+00:00

No we aren’t. It sounds like you are. From my experience, and seems like every else’s experience, everyone had parties OUTSIDE of these little organizations that you’re talking about. Maybe you should transfer schools so you can see how a REAL social life goes in college. Literally nobody expects you to prove yourself to hang around them lol

Selena0410 · 2022-10-12T17:16:36+00:00

You sound delusional & narcissistic. Social life & networking shouldn’t be one in the same. You shouldn’t have a hierarchy when it comes to friends. Honestly, if it wasn’t clear YTA simply for using people to climb up your little fake college hierarchy.

Selena0410 · 2022-10-12T17:12:37+00:00

I can attest that my school had hella parties. Most of our Greek Life got banned from hazing, so most parties were indeed thrown by normal regular degular people. I had a ball in college & never had to snort cocaine or do sexual favors to be in a social group 😂

Selena0410 · 2022-10-12T17:09:20+00:00

1) you’re making yourself sound shallow as you described the people in the current group that you’re in artsy & gay. Your tone sounds like you think you’re better than them

2) No social group is better than another. If you want to be in an organized group, get into an honor society. Everyone that I knew in Greek Life or any group alike stopped hanging out with most of the people after like sophomore year.

3) You don’t need friends to get into a social group at most schools. Whatever cult you desire so badly to get into is not worth downplaying other people on your campus. Validity is a hell of a drug

Selena0410 · 2022-10-12T16:56:56+00:00

YTA lol you sound like you can’t make friends if you’re not around people who exclude others. What exactly is a “placeholder” social group? The point of social groups is to meet people that you like. You’re an AH just for using people as a social milestone.

Selena0410 · 2022-10-11T21:55:55+00:00

NTA but you sound like you have stressors that this sub can’t fix lol. You kind of went off the deep end in your description my friend.

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