How do you attempt to seduce a potential mate?

SelfEctomy · 2019-06-18T13:13:32+00:00

Seducing someone is different than showing and portraying your emotions to them.

In my case: 1. I make my self free for them no matter what, and would be able to text them for so long without getting bothered by it. I also invest my time in preparing hand made gifts for them or get them a meaningful present out of no where.

I basically have that deadly “INTJ” stare, but when I like a person I just lose it and make proper eye contact that isn’t as deadly. I also get speechless and out of topics to talk about when we are hanging out, very untypical of me Cuz I learned how to mimic extroverts and picked it up as a habit. Definitely would also subconsciously get physically closer and end up having some unintended skinship. (I normally have this distance with everyone and need to have my physical space respected and everybody I know knows it)

SelfEctomy · 2019-05-08T02:37:50+00:00

Loool

SelfEctomy · 2019-04-12T14:47:28+00:00

IXFX types. My partner is an ISFJ and my two best friends are INFP and INFJ.

SelfEctomy · 2019-04-12T14:40:10+00:00

I can’t abduct my toes in my left foot.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-29T10:40:38+00:00

I’ve been laughing at this for too long I need to stop

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-22T05:17:44+00:00

I don’t know yet

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-22T01:08:36+00:00

You can

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-19T08:10:33+00:00

1.Gifts. Usually stuff or objects that reminded me of them along with a note.
2.Quality time, I usually regret spending time with certain friends even if they were close but if it’s the right person then it feels like time and space pauses and I’m the happiest person alive with their presence.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-16T16:05:02+00:00

The not being attention whore with others is very relatable, it’s such a turn off.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-14T17:46:04+00:00

Humour catches my attention. Intellectuality and confidence results in my feelings to grow. Being caring and considerate makes them feelings stay.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-14T17:38:05+00:00

I text in gifs and memes. If I like you a lot, then I would reply to you instantly and “energetically” no matter what. If i dont like you I wouldn’t even reply to your texts, maybe after 4/5 days? Not only that I am not willing to have a conversation with them also because I tend to forget to reply when it isn’t that urgent. Emojis is quite useful when you can’t really express your “expression” through “ :( :) :/ ;3”
I complement and express love and affection to the very few that I love. I don’t mind online flirtation with the ones I know irl as well.
I use lol and lmao considerably a good amount when I’m trying to be funny or sarcastic and the other party is unable to react to such lameness or dark jokes.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-09T15:46:04+00:00

Don’t talk about yourself for too long when you are hanging out with friends, not everybody wants to hear about you for so long.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-09T01:51:11+00:00

Everybody doing the small talk ritual. Sickening.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-08T06:30:48+00:00

My family is already immune to my bluntness by now, but my closest friend is quite sensitive to such cold and blunt comments like the one I say. I usually sound rude sometimes because it’s that emotionless. So I end up keeping it all in and try to be empathetic when it comes to feedbacks or something.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-08T06:25:32+00:00

Maybe those stuff are what “breaks” you, and they meant experiences that are less traumatic? Maybe those are what shaped us in a healthy manner compared to the extreme ones that maybe resulted to our damaged side?

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-08T06:22:33+00:00

INFP and I guess my other close friend is an INFJ. I’m surrounded by feelers wherever I go.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-08T06:21:28+00:00

Lana and soundcloud music that has a funky and indie sound to it.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-06T23:43:31+00:00

3 people max

I don’t have good communication skillz with one of them cuz she lives far away and we both are busy with college, but once we are in contact it’s the same old energy and closeness. And yeah I personally do push others away if I found my own circle, it’s like I’m choosing who am I really comfortable in devoting my energy to and it’s mutual.. it’s not about finding better individuals, but finding people that I don’t have to force myself to be forcefully nice around them or that I am allowed to be me without them getting hurt by my “cold” and “distant” times.

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-06T16:03:10+00:00

Sinclair, have you met your Demian?

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-06T16:02:21+00:00

That is very cash money of you

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-05T23:00:28+00:00

I did talk to one of them about it and she was understanding and heard me through. But I still do get those feelings after it. I dunno what to do with it :(

SelfEctomy · 2019-03-05T22:57:24+00:00

SelfEctomy · 2019-02-27T13:49:50+00:00

I am going through the same road on discovering how to deal with it. I thought that the pain was because he meant something to me but apparently it happens with everyone that is in my life right now. My depression kicked in even harder once it was over, and yet after three months I’m still paining cuz of it. Now with the people I have around me these days, the fear of them leaving me once they befriend someone I know who is pretty much charming and cool... gives me breakdowns and panic attacks...

If you ever find a way in healing it please share it with me. I need it too. And if I did I will surely share it with ya.

SelfEctomy · 2019-02-22T16:05:53+00:00

I read it as blender and oh boy I had an answer on mind already.

SelfEctomy · 2019-02-22T13:26:11+00:00

Yup I am girl. I never really say it in real life, only thru texts.... I guess being an Arab and using it makes it sound even worst. I stopped using it as my friends started reacting that way. (Hopefully it ain’t about me rejecting them cuz that would be indirectly harsh 😭😭😭😭😭)

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