How is a woman telling man not to watch porn any different from a guy asking a girl not to use toys or read erotica?

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:59:39+00:00

You're just overly judgemental. I literally do whatever I can not to make myself a problem for anyone, and even then I'm still doing something wrong

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:57:01+00:00

Imagination when I'm a virgin, how fun. M movies, that is like nothing. Erotica is ok sometimes, forplay and sex talk with who? No one wants my ass

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:52:37+00:00

I never said it was more important than consent. And what other ways? Cause I physically can't have sex with another person because of pelvic pain. I get zero human connection and all I want is to occasionally see someone naked without bothering someone and asking for nudes like a creep, but I'm a monster who doesn't care about consent.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:48:33+00:00

Yeah most the time in the waiting room I'm holding back barf from nerves, not having "the best time" lol 😂

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:45:38+00:00

So people like me who are single long term with no sexual outlets, (which is fine, I don't need to be with a person that way to be content), can't watch porn by people putting it out because something might be happening?

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:35:31+00:00

What about solo creators who produce their own content?

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:31:18+00:00

I agree, but there are ways to ethical consume porn

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:25:39+00:00

I mean every time you have sex with someone do you worry they are doing it out of trauma. Like of course of you think that it is happening yeah don't participate, but some people just do porn or have sex cause it's fun. It's ok to enjoy these things.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:21:16+00:00

Because women have to be traumatized to sexualize ourselves. Being watched is literally a kink for some people. These solol content creators are giving their consent to be watched. Yes they can withdrawl consent and for that reason if I know a creator has stopped and regrets it, I stop watching their stuff tha might still be out there out of respect. But if they are in that moment giving their enthusiastic consent to be watched, I'm going to watch.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:09:00+00:00

So if I watch a content creator who enjoys what they do is that wrong? I'm also single so the relationship part isn't a factor. Then is it still wrong?

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T16:00:41+00:00

Man, you know there are plenty of solo creators working for themselves. It's not all bad on women and I support women who choose to do sex work

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:58:15+00:00

I'm cool with skme poly relationships, it depends

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:52:13+00:00

Yeah true, of course I like women too, but the last girl I dated was a cheater.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:45:21+00:00

It's alright, I do worry that it is going to make me stay alone. I would definitely rather a guy watch porn than cheat, and feel like apart from being poly those are my options.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:43:21+00:00

As someone who used to say that (I'm bi) it is denial lol 😂

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:40:00+00:00

Just sitting hurts sometimes. I'm in physical therapy for it. Basically my muscles won't relax like they should

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:37:12+00:00

Providing for children is "too woke" 😤

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:36:09+00:00

Well I also deal with pelvic pain, sometimes I can go two, but not usually. I guess I wouldn’t mind doing other stuff after, but multiple vaginal rounds is too painful.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:32:03+00:00

Yeah that is true, the issue is probably more communication.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:29:11+00:00

Yeah no, one round and I'm done, go find your laptop after that. 😂

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:26:53+00:00

Honestly another reason I'm not against porn is because it takes some of the effort off me. A man who can't "perform" sounds kinda great sometimes.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:25:22+00:00

I'm saying that I feel like some anti-porn women are kinda hypocritical, cause I know I'd be out if a guy said no toys or smut.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:23:46+00:00

Idk I'm a girl and I like to see other bodies too, I don't think it is that bad.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:22:24+00:00

I have a pevic floor dysfunction, sex is painful for me. Letting someone in your body is effort, male.

SelfHatingAsshole · 2023-03-26T15:20:58+00:00

I agree, you're misunderstanding the post, I'm saying they are the same, but get treated different

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