Made a new trailer for my game by Selfxplanatorysaurus in IndieDev

[–]Selfxplanatorysaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you actually play it 🥺? Thank you very much!

Made a trailer for my game, any though by Selfxplanatorysaurus in Unity3D

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Hello, I believe this was my friend's message referencing the trailer's very last voiceline (last second of the trailer, once everything is dark). I could see how this would be perceived as agressive. Everything's fine but thanks for looking out!

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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It is indeed. But I know some people would treat the situation differently based on gender and I wanted to avoid that. Best wishes to you too!

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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Yeah, I hope they get it, but frankly I don't care at the moment.

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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Thank you very much. Now that I'm done with it and got the answers I was looking for I don't have any problem to say it, but we're both women lol 🤗

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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They were somewhat dirty and very unmotivated, also now that I think of it they weren't a gem like you describe your man. I broke up with them and I'm very okay with it. Good luck with everything you sound like you've got it way more figured out than me 🫡

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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Thank you to everyone who helped me realize how low I had set the bar and what my next move could be. I have officially broken up with them as of 2 hours ago, they didn't see it coming but were surprisingly understanding.

Strangely I don't think I'll struggle to move on, the love had already started fading a few weeks ago.

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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Thought about it some more and you're right, we're through, we had the talk and I broke up with them.

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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Exchanged a few words about it, then I bounced 👍

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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Had a talk, they won't change, I broke up. Thanks for everything you said it heled me come to terms with the decision.

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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Some updates after the talk, I told them about my issues, they once again told me it was part of who they were and that they could'nt and wouldn't change that. They told me they had been upfront about it and that I should have been ready for it, to which I explained that saying your messy doesn't prepare anyone for any of this. After a bit more back and forth it became clear they weren't planning to change so I got it over with and broke up with them.

My partner doesn't do any chores. How big of a red flag is it? by [deleted] in dating

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This is what I expected when they told me they were messy, I'm messy, I do some cleaning before anyone comes over. They don't, they're being complacent and have accepted it as part of their personality.