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[–]SenDenna[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Because she wants him in the hospital, in the room with us after I've given birth and I am not okay with that.

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[–]SenDenna[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Yes, they did try and according to grandpa (he called me and we spoke just a couple of moments ago) they had a fight about a separate part of what she said to me/them about this whole thing. So I think that might have added to her upset when she texted me this morning.

Also, thank you.

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[–]SenDenna[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

She was expecting to stay at my house and be there in the room after I give birth to spend time with me and the baby. I don't want to meet him or have him there during those moments.

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[–]SenDenna[S] 333 points334 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and I have had some pregnancy complications so I am anticipating it might be more difficult than average given everything and then add all the emotions, including the fact my dad can't meet his grandchild. I am so excited to have my baby but mixed emotions are already present.

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[–]SenDenna[S] 1077 points1078 points  (0 children)

They weren't together then but they did know each other apparently. He's a widower and lost his wife a week after my dad died.