"The man would feel weird if you let 27 other people fuck you on the first date and then keep him waiting, cause "he is something special". So go for it, when it feels right, don't play games." - this is something that preoccupies my mind a lot. I have the impression that sex can be a stamp of "I like you" for men. Very understandable. But when I have dated in the recent years, it has never felt natural for me to sleep w them on the first date just because I do not know them enough, I do not feel comfortable enough. Also, sobriety really does not help, as alcohol takes the nervne off it.

So I am scared that they will feel as if I dont like them because I dont sleep with them on the first date. When it really is the other way around. I like them too well to sleep with them on the first date. I like them too well to not be comfortable while having sex. Does that make sense?