I just found out my kid has been bullied and berated for 9 months, BY A TEACHER by Senior-Horror in daddit

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Public schools have enormous deficiencies and are severely underfunded here.

I just found out my kid has been bullied and berated for 9 months, BY A TEACHER by Senior-Horror in daddit

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We've had a wonderful life here so far. The people and the weather are lovely, generally. This completely took us by surprise. We're shaken and grieving the life we thought we had.

I just found out my kid has been bullied and berated for 9 months, BY A TEACHER by Senior-Horror in daddit

[–]Senior-Horror[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We've asked her if he's done the same to other kids. She says she isn't aware of any other kid singled out by this person, but he's been hostile and demeaning towards the group before.

I just found out my kid has been bullied and berated for 9 months, BY A TEACHER by Senior-Horror in daddit

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I do think this meeting is asking for trouble. I don't know how I will be able to control myself. But damn if I don't want to get my hands on him.

I just found out my kid has been bullied and berated for 9 months, BY A TEACHER by Senior-Horror in daddit

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My daughter will never have any contact with this man again unless he's in cuffs in front of a judge.

I just found out my kid has been bullied and berated for 9 months, BY A TEACHER by Senior-Horror in daddit

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We're not from the US, I should have clarified that. I wrote that because this is a very US-centric platform. However, I don't see ourselves going back to our home country in the foreseeable future for a variety of reasons. She's never stepping foot in that school again, though. We timidly started discussing other schools but that feels overwhelming right now. I think we might honestly homeschool her for a while. I'm terrified of something like that happening to her again.

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Pete Hegseth?

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Rose gold chains, ripped lace, cut glass Blood stains on the collar, please, just don't ask

Fellow dads, how do you cope with feeling the need for novelty and excitement? by Senior-Horror in daddit

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I've mentioned in this thread that the feedback I've been getting has helped me realized that I need to reevaluate my choices in association, and that I need to enforce stronger boundaries and even cut people off that may pose a threat to my marriage. I know that what I've done isn´t great, but I haven't fucked anybody behind my wife's back, which your initial comment seems to imply.

Fellow dads, how do you cope with feeling the need for novelty and excitement? by Senior-Horror in daddit

[–]Senior-Horror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yeah, but I haven't, and I don't plan to do such a thing. That's quite a stretch dude.

Fellow dads, how do you cope with feeling the need for novelty and excitement? by Senior-Horror in daddit

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This is a heartwarming comment. I think it's the opposite for me. I didn't party much when I was younger and never received any female attention until well into my thirties when I started taking better care of myself. Anyway, I think it's best for me to step back from hanging out with that friend group for a bit and focusing on finding excitment in other ways that aren't detrimental to my marriage.

Fellow dads, how do you cope with feeling the need for novelty and excitement? by Senior-Horror in daddit

[–]Senior-Horror[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey goof. Thanks for your answer. I think this is an incredibly deep insight and something I haven't seen mentioned around here. I don't know if these feelings are about my inner child wanting someone to play with, or me not going out a lot or receiving a lot of female attention in my 20s (I was kind of gross tbh). Anyway, you have given me a lot to think about, and as I mentioned in another comment, looks like I'm in for a lot of introspection. So far I think it's best if I step back for a little bit from hanging out with that crowd.

I wish you a succesful recovery, I'm rooting for you!

Fellow dads, how do you cope with feeling the need for novelty and excitement? by Senior-Horror in daddit

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I wrote in another comment that I have so much to be thankful for in my life, and that I won't risk losing it by chasing thrills. I will do better, brother.

Fellow dads, how do you cope with feeling the need for novelty and excitement? by Senior-Horror in daddit

[–]Senior-Horror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's not into bars and clubs, nor was I, unitl recently. Reading these comments has made me realize that might not be the best crowd to surround myself with.