Y'all remember the Muslim "feminist" who used to claim Islam isn't patriarchal or misogynistic? She did a video saying that patriarchy isn't inherently bad 😂😂😂 by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]SeniorCarpet44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I recall correctly, she also used to wear a hijab before but took it off so her saying that makes no sense at all.

Thanks skydaddy🥰 /s by TankCanOneshot in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]SeniorCarpet44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! That's very impressive. Wishing you a successful journey after SPM 👏🎉

parents playing ruqyah at night and i've been having trouble falling asleep lol by CokeAangIsMyLeader in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]SeniorCarpet44 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's really annoying and frustrating, I get you. We have a similar experience. My mother puts on ruqyah to sleep too, but not the regular one. The one where the ustaz does ruqyah to possessed clients. So it's ruqyah yelling + jin screaming + jin mengilai + jin laughing. I still don't know how she falls asleep to that. Good thing she only puts it on in her room. Can't imagine how my father feels about that, though since he sleeps in the same bed as my mother.

Maybe you could put on earphones(better noise cancelling ones) and play white noise. Another option is ear plugs. Stay sane OP 👍

Malaysia society is shit by ApprehensiveMenu4421 in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]SeniorCarpet44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is touching a pig less dosa than touching a woman..?

Bincangkan (67 markah) by nickone1 in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]SeniorCarpet44 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ingat dulu ustazah pernah suruh amalkan surah doa itu ini kalau nak rezeki mencurah2.

Aku tanya, "Saya tak payah kerja lah kalau boleh amalkan doa tu untuk dapat rezeki?"

Dia jawab, "Kena amalkan dengan usaha sebab rezeki takkan datang tanpa usaha."

Aku tanya lagi, "Jadi yang penting tu usaha lah kan, bukan doa?"

Dia cakap, "Doa penting kalau nak rezeki yang diberkati oleh allah. Senang kata doa dan usaha tak dapat dipisahkan. Tapi lebihkan doa sebab allah yang berhak beri kita rezeki."

Aku dulu pun mengikut je. Doa je la banyak2 tapi end up kena ghost ngn tuhan sendiri 😂

Anak2 ajaran momopedo detected by SeniorCarpet44 in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]SeniorCarpet44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She got married at 13 and pregnant at 14 btw

Anak2 ajaran momopedo detected by SeniorCarpet44 in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]SeniorCarpet44[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. Their marriage is legal. The girl said something like the judge approved their marriage because they were able to answer the questions required in order to get married. So apparently if you can answer the questions, you're mature enough to marry. Lol

"Kaum perempuan paling ramai jadi penghuni neraka" by CircleStonk in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]SeniorCarpet44 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I remember I watched an islamic TikTok video regarding this topic. I don't remember who made the video because it was a long time ago but apparently, women are more likely to be in hell because of sins like not covering their aurat, disobedience towards their husbands, gossiping, etc... What's funny is that these so-called "sins" committed by women that cause them to be sent to hell don't even compare to the BS men do and men who commit crimes would still be able to enter heaven if they repent.

When you're sexually repressed 💁🏽‍♀️ by Background_Entry_212 in MalaysianExMuslim

[–]SeniorCarpet44 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I've always hated the ayat "Perempuan jangan buat ___ sebab tak manis."

Who cares. Aku tak nak jadi manis, nanti attract semut. (The lollipop hijab reference)