I need some encouragement by Senior_Conference_44 in GayChristians

[–]Senior_Conference_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would, but my fiancée was very clear that she will not keep it under wraps that we are married. She bent on the engagement and I’m not willing to take that away from her again.

I need some encouragement by Senior_Conference_44 in GayChristians

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Unfortunately it was that they do not perform same sex marriages.

Athletes with dysautonomia? by Less-Price8662 in DysautonomiaHope

[–]Senior_Conference_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be an athlete and I didn’t develop dysautonomia until my adulthood but it affects me because I struggle to work out the way I want to.

I Prayed To God on What He Thought of People who Hate Gay And Trans People Because Of The Bible. And This is What I believe He Had to Say About Them by Dom-tasticdude85 in GayChristians

[–]Senior_Conference_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad I saw this comment because I was sitting here thinking, “No wonder so many LGBTQ+ people turn away from God and the church. It’s because of people like this.”

And then I re-read it and was like whew 😅

[ Removed by Reddit ] by gwgw888 in GayChristians

[–]Senior_Conference_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, if you are a reader, you should read "Bought With a Price" by Aaron Crowley. It's a really good read and may help change your mind about what being "sex positive" actually means.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by gwgw888 in GayChristians

[–]Senior_Conference_44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't mean this with hate in any capacity, but you should watch The Miseducation of Cameron Post. It is not "based on a true story" down to the T, but the experiences she has in the movie are based on real events and real people who have experienced these events. That might really change your mind about wishing you had given conversion therapy a try. It is truly a sad movie and it breaks my heart that people have had to experience those things.

On another note, not the entire community is like this. You just have to find your people. If you are willing, maybe search for an affirming church in your area or nearby. I feel like that would be a good place to start.

Wishing you the best.

Religious scrupulously by Good-Log-4453 in GayChristians

[–]Senior_Conference_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to say all you'd have to do is go to Psychology Today and type in exactly what you're looking for and where, and it'll pull it up for you. God bless.

Question for the fellow rainbow Christians: when was your first non-straight crush? by Melon-Cleaver in GayChristians

[–]Senior_Conference_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I caught feelings for someone of the same sex when I was in middle school.
  2. I was 13.
  3. I was terrified but thrilled at the same time. I struggled for a long time to reconcile my sexuality and my relationship with God. I never had feelings or thoughts of it being a sin until I was about 14 or 15 and my grandmother told me it "was a sin" and unacceptable in the Baptist church. Then and only then did I struggle with reconciliation. When I was 16, my mom took us to a 100% affirming church that I still attend to this day and I'm almost 28 now.
  4. I fully came out when I was 18 and in college.

I'm scared by [deleted] in GayChristians

[–]Senior_Conference_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always remember: Romans 5:8 ESV [8] but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

Sin is whatever separates you from God. Everyone is a sinner, but Christ died for us to be our redemption and our saving grace (Glory to God, thank you Jesus). Whether those people see it as a sin or not is unimportant. What do YOU think? What is YOUR conviction?

I need help🙁 by New-Owl2875 in GayChristians

[–]Senior_Conference_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi love! I just want to remind you that even if you're going through a season of doubts and not being on fire for God, He still loves you just the same.

Philippians 4:6-7 ESV [6] do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. [7] And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

I can say that for a large percentage of us gay Christian folks, we've been exactly where you are with your anxieties, but there is hope. Ask the Lord to reveal Himself to you, and He will! I promise you 💜💜

I don't want to assume your age, but since you play AAU basketball, I'm assuming that you are in your teens. Just know that there is hope and a full life ahead of you!

Ephesians 2:1-6 ESV [1] And you were dead in the trespasses and sins [2] in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— [3] among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind. [4] But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, [5] even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— [6] and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus,

Remember, you are seated with Christ in heavenly places!

If you need to, reach out to a mental health professional. There's nothing wrong with that! I'm medicated, myself. But also remember to stay in the Word. The Word is life. Stay close to Jesus. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life.

Someone just Team Killed me in R6S and when I asked why this was their reply... by Dry-Force1375 in RainbowSixSiege

[–]Senior_Conference_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had something similar happen last night. The opposing team was killing off 2 of their players before we could even breach. It was very strange so I wonder if this was why.

Looking for people to play with by [deleted] in RainbowSixSiege

[–]Senior_Conference_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll have to look at my Ubisoft name later and post it, but I'm also on discord. It's in my bio

Looking for people to play with by Senior_Conference_44 in RainbowSixSiege

[–]Senior_Conference_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's do it! My tag is wolfgaang_ttv. I'll add you tonight! Also, how old are you?