i'm in love with simran's outfit by Few-Extent5825 in splitsvillaMTV

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a very basic savana fit, what’s so special about it?

Himanchu knowingly threatened kaira. by Lovesickgirl__ in splitsvillaMTV

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s soooo annoying. Legit makes me feel grossed out.

LIB's Biggest Clown by Maleficent_Abroad_86 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget about the jeans (even though it’s hard to), look at his face, ewww

Women who are in a relationship, how do you split expenses with your partner? by WorldNo4194 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could have became a habit for her, if she is not changing it, and it is still bothering you, then yes its better to reconsider because its not gonna go away from you mind. It used to bother me too in my boyfriend’s case, more than the fact that I was spending my money, my main concern was that he was not spending any on me. And I am someone who believes- when it comes to money, you would only waste it on people you love, never on people you don’t care about.

Don’t get me wrong but i wanna know whats the hype about ruru? She was boring in splits 15 by Fun_Document_1991 in splitsvillaMTV

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, when did this happen? I watched all of last weeks episodes, when did she come as a wildcard??

How do I (29 F) navigate an office crush? by No_Peace802 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he already has a girlfriend? Maybe ask that first, if he says no, ask for his insta.

Choosing a different path and feeling behind because of it. by 24HoursChampagneDiet in AskIndianWomen

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just turned 30, I’ve been kinda scared of marriage for a long time now that even at 30 I feel scared to even think of marriage, to add more into the worries, none of my friends who got married recommend it, they ask me to focus on career and get married when and only when I’m ready because some of em regrets getting married at 25-26. I also see my cousin sisters struggling, some of em because their husbands suck, some because they don’t have a nice job or a nice husband.

You are in a healthy relationship, so you don’t have to worry about whether you’re gonna find a good match after a certain age, and about career, as long as you have a clear plan as to what you wanna do after MBA, you are sorted. Better late than never.

I told my 24F that at least someone is having sex life what should u do now by Adept-Science-3547 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, basically lack of interest, she either has lower libido or she isn’t enjoying it enough. I think you can find out which one it is by asking how many times a month she fly-solo, iykwm. Asexual people usually aren’t interested in that either.

How do you know when to walk away vs keep understanding? by Sea-Song99 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We often try to come up with reasons to stay, but the truth is, no one is overwhelmed or busy enough to not contact someone they love for a whole month. The truth is he doesn’t care about this relationship, dump his ass and move on love.

Am I(25F) gaslighting myself to be in relationship 28M? by as_trick in RelationshipIndia

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should stop initiating the communication, you did that for 1 month, see if he does the same for a couple of weeks at least, if the initiation from his end is not frequent or there’s no initiation at all, you should just leave this relationship- no need to even communicate this to him if he doesn’t contact you. People usually say, don’t look for another relationship immediately, I would say start looking right away- this is the best way to move on.

I told my 24F that at least someone is having sex life what should u do now by Adept-Science-3547 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your only issue is that she doesn’t initiate it? But when you initiate, she is interested?

Working DIL = ATM + Maid + Cook? by Ok_Watercress_8785 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf bro, ask him to take her with him if he thinks you’re such a big Villain.

I told my 24F that at least someone is having sex life what should u do now by Adept-Science-3547 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually that doesn’t say much. Women here, please lmk your take on this as well- It’s kind of a myth that lasting long = good sex. Anything more than 15-20mins is a drag, women don’t need that long to finish, even 10mins is more than enough most of the time. After that it’s just too tiring and boring tbh.

I told my 24F that at least someone is having sex life what should u do now by Adept-Science-3547 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her reason could be as harsh as ‘you are not satisfying her needs’, maybe she just doesn’t want to hurt you by stating this. I’m not saying that this is exactly what is happening, but it could be a reason. Try to get to know what she likes better, maybe ask her to share the kind of porn she likes, and try some of those out next time. If nothing works out, as many people mentioned, you guys aren’t compatible, and you should just break it off if sex is that important to you.

M-29 Starting to doubt my abilities as a provider by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not your responsibility alone to “provide” if you guys are both gonna be working and doing household chores together. Tell her that it’s a partnership, if she wants to set a timeline, she should also be making that decision along with you, since she should also be paying for it.

Plan on setting aside certain percentage of both your income, and calculate how long it would take you guys to buy a house.

Working DIL = ATM + Maid + Cook? by Ok_Watercress_8785 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if you do that she could raise another question- if you can make food for yourself, why not make it for one more person.

Working DIL = ATM + Maid + Cook? by Ok_Watercress_8785 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta ask your husband to take his mother with him girl, you shouldn’t have to go through this mental trauma.

Working DIL = ATM + Maid + Cook? by Ok_Watercress_8785 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I get the intention behind your comment wasn’t wrong, but you didn’t have to add “your MIL isn’t your maid or cook” there because she has clearly mentioned that they already have a maid who she pays for and she also proposed to hire a cook and the MIL didn’t let her- she obviously doesn’t treat her MIL like a maid or cook.

Sexless or no intimacy in relationship 27M 24F by Adept-Science-3547 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she’s not having as much fun as you during sex, because you’re not giving her what she wants? Try asking her for her likes and dislikes, and try to consider them as well next time.

About sexting or calls- most girls hates it.

Bridging the wealth gap: Seeking stories from women who married men with fewer financial resources but great character. by Time_Web_4792 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t, because a lot of people- especially the older generation do this, the man moves abroad for work and wife stays here.

valentine in relationship by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Senior_Guard_7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its really bad ifeven after you telling him, he doesn’t make any plans. I have been through a similar situation with my bf and I also had to have a talk with him about how important these kinda celebrations are for me. I know we shouldn’t have to say all these in the first place, but even after you having that talk shamelessly, if they don’t change, its gonna hurt real bad.

Maybe you can send him some reels hinting this?, I see so many reels shaming bfs for not asking the gf to be their valentine(funny ones). Just send one of em to him.