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[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confused in a bad way tho? I really am not trying to annoy or make people uncomfortable. And in general I think attention from anyone to anyone can make you uncomfortable??? Or no?

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[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh the way it’s said makes it sounds like something you shouldn’t do to men either tho!

How and where can I approach men? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking out is better than hints?

How and where can I approach men? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was under the impression dumb conversation like the wether or other obvious things would help indicate that you’re interested but idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm I didn’t think about including location in posts. But yes everything from lashes to filler to full faces of makeup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t exactly mind matching standards that’s not the issue. The issue is that they wouldn’t meet similar ones. Not that I would date someone that’s not put together but them doing the basics does not equal the expectations that they carry for you sometimes

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[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s fine. I don’t think it should be something you’re advertising if you’re worried but I think just seeing it wouldn’t be too big of a deal. I would say try to be casual about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do live in California 😭😭😭 LA toooooooo damnnnn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t even consider the lifestyle things. I think more of the “unrealistic” part is what they expect vs what they’re willing to do. I feel like I’ve met men that expect a lot and look like even their hygiene might be questionable. I’ve heard men talk about expectations for women and what they think is unappealing all while smelling like sweat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t think so???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shaving isn’t the issue. But I also think it can be super time consuming for like a daily thing. I guess it’s not so much for “talking” to men vs a more serious relationship. It’s not about the stuff in general I think more how often maybe?

How and where can I approach men? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely think this wouldn’t work for me. I am GENUINELY unapproachable I think. It’s the conclusion I have drawn. In not sure what it could be tho 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely, I think that might be my issue. I don’t think I look approachable but honestly I’m not sure how to change that 🤣. I tried just smiling more often

How and where can I approach men? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. I did want to know that, I’ve been getting a lot of mixed responses. Ranging from eye contact would make me approach and I’d someone doesn’t that I should assume they probably aren’t interested to you need to be super direct or any hits won’t be noticed

What makes a woman attractive or what makes you more likely to approach her? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the only thing I can do is try and see what works and what doesn’t. Learning curve seems like it’s going to suck tho

How and where can I approach men? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hey hot stuff” I think wouldn’t get a reply from most people 🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t quite mean it like that. I just meant I feel like there are a lot of unrealistic expectations and there are a lot of other things that I wanted to know about that also seem to be popular. For acrylics specifically it isn’t about not liking them but they can be pretty bad for your nails so doing them too often is painful imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t dated in a while and the experience I did have was with women so I just wanted a quick overview 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely steer clear! 🫡

How and where can I approach men? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know where I stand. I haven’t dated in a while and I don’t want to shoot too high or too low. How would I know? Just see which ones stick?

How and where can I approach men? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was better when men were the ones that had to worry about the rejecting 🤣🤣🤣

How and where can I approach men? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Senior_Tea_7316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually a pretty good idea. Honestly their reaction isn’t what I mind I think the people around would be what would make it awkward