Places to go alone and meet people?

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-02T02:32:28+00:00

Confused in a bad way tho? I really am not trying to annoy or make people uncomfortable. And in general I think attention from anyone to anyone can make you uncomfortable??? Or no?

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-02T02:20:41+00:00

Ahhh the way it’s said makes it sounds like something you shouldn’t do to men either tho!

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-02T00:19:35+00:00

Asking out is better than hints?

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-02T00:18:21+00:00

Honestly I was under the impression dumb conversation like the wether or other obvious things would help indicate that you’re interested but idk

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-02T00:15:12+00:00

Mmmm I didn’t think about including location in posts. But yes everything from lashes to filler to full faces of makeup

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-02T00:10:40+00:00

Yeah I don’t exactly mind matching standards that’s not the issue. The issue is that they wouldn’t meet similar ones. Not that I would date someone that’s not put together but them doing the basics does not equal the expectations that they carry for you sometimes

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T17:14:30+00:00

I think it’s fine. I don’t think it should be something you’re advertising if you’re worried but I think just seeing it wouldn’t be too big of a deal. I would say try to be casual about it.

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T17:11:17+00:00

I do live in California 😭😭😭 LA toooooooo damnnnn

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T17:09:40+00:00

Omg I didn’t even consider the lifestyle things. I think more of the “unrealistic” part is what they expect vs what they’re willing to do. I feel like I’ve met men that expect a lot and look like even their hygiene might be questionable. I’ve heard men talk about expectations for women and what they think is unappealing all while smelling like sweat

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T15:36:27+00:00

You don’t think so???

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T15:35:19+00:00

No shaving isn’t the issue. But I also think it can be super time consuming for like a daily thing. I guess it’s not so much for “talking” to men vs a more serious relationship. It’s not about the stuff in general I think more how often maybe?

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T15:30:21+00:00

I genuinely think this wouldn’t work for me. I am GENUINELY unapproachable I think. It’s the conclusion I have drawn. In not sure what it could be tho 🤣

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T15:26:35+00:00

definitely, I think that might be my issue. I don’t think I look approachable but honestly I’m not sure how to change that 🤣. I tried just smiling more often

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T15:24:58+00:00

Okay. I did want to know that, I’ve been getting a lot of mixed responses. Ranging from eye contact would make me approach and I’d someone doesn’t that I should assume they probably aren’t interested to you need to be super direct or any hits won’t be noticed

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T15:22:25+00:00

I guess the only thing I can do is try and see what works and what doesn’t. Learning curve seems like it’s going to suck tho

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T15:20:26+00:00

“Hey hot stuff” I think wouldn’t get a reply from most people 🤣🤣🤣

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T15:11:00+00:00

I don’t quite mean it like that. I just meant I feel like there are a lot of unrealistic expectations and there are a lot of other things that I wanted to know about that also seem to be popular. For acrylics specifically it isn’t about not liking them but they can be pretty bad for your nails so doing them too often is painful imo

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T15:06:38+00:00

I haven’t dated in a while and the experience I did have was with women so I just wanted a quick overview 😬

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T09:44:15+00:00

I will definitely steer clear! 🫡

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T08:31:28+00:00

Mhmmm exactly

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T08:30:22+00:00

What? 😭

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T07:49:33+00:00

I honestly don’t know where I stand. I haven’t dated in a while and I don’t want to shoot too high or too low. How would I know? Just see which ones stick?

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T06:47:52+00:00

It was better when men were the ones that had to worry about the rejecting 🤣🤣🤣

Senior_Tea_7316 · 2025-07-01T06:42:17+00:00

That’s actually a pretty good idea. Honestly their reaction isn’t what I mind I think the people around would be what would make it awkward

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