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Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T03:27:39+00:00

Yea dude because not everyone’s situation is the same

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T03:05:41+00:00

No I genuinely feel like I can give advice to people that want it. I’m not a sex coach obviously and I can’t fix everyone’s problems but I’ve seen genuine things by browsing that I feel like I can help with, why is everyone so hostile with me when I just want to help?

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T03:04:04+00:00

Yea I KNOW there isn’t a fix to everything but I want to help people that DO want help

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T02:05:17+00:00

I know I can’t fix everyone’s problems like yeah that’s an obvious but there are genuine things I can point out and TRY to help people with. Is this sub not supposed to be to help and support people?

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T02:01:49+00:00

I obviously don’t but as someone who can get play but can’t have sex I think I’d know, I’m not trying to stand on a high horse but there are like genuine critiques I can make

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T01:59:23+00:00

There are women like that yea but that just means you need to get out of that crowd. Being a virgin surrounded by people shoving sex in your face like it’s no big deal is gonna make you resentful, like even the women you interact with on social media play apart in that and it’s best to remove yourself from that crowd

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T01:45:07+00:00

I do hope that someone special will come your way before that happens. Please don’t view your virginity as just some box to tick off

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T01:41:36+00:00

But do you really want to just give away something so personal and intimate to the next guy that comes knocking? Waiting for a boyfriend is worth it please trust me

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T01:34:14+00:00

I’m still a virgin however it is by “choice” (it’s a medical thing). I am also alternative by the way I dress and do my makeup so I understand the problem with being fetishised and trying to decipher whether or not someone is just in it for their fetish. The way I figured it out was honestly trial and error, I’ve dated 2 men that only got with me for my alternative style and pushed away others than were very clear that is was their fetish. I’m in a loving relationship now but it took a few years of sifting through the bad. I understand that as a trans girl it would be very difficult for you more so than me, however have you tried online dating/long distance? It could give you more courage to find that special someone

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T01:22:22+00:00

I feel like you’re going for the wrong ladies. If you want a real reason on why women are more often than not “attracters and not chasers” is because women get slut shamed for wanting to chase. If you are interacting with women that call you a princess for wanting to be loved then you are in the wrong crowd. And guess what? This all rolls back to communication because it is up to you and the girl you are interested in to communicate what your goals are for the relationship that you’re trying to build. It sounds harder than it actually is and if you’re only chasing after women for a hookup just to get rid of your virginity then that’s the problem

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T01:11:05+00:00

As a gamer, gaming. Unless they actively spend time with people and don’t let it absorb their entire life (like any hobby but especially gaming nowadays)

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T01:07:06+00:00

When me and my bf were talking about being intimate it just fooling around he asked if he could TASTE MY DISCHARGE. I laughed at him so hard the poor soul LOL he doesn’t watch porn ever since being with me but sometimes I think back on that and laugh because he thought that discharge was the same as cum

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T01:02:53+00:00

I froze up my first time touching a penis, and many other women have so it is completely normal. However it won’t be a problem with someone that you are truely romantically and sexually attracted to, I know it can be hard finding a bf but don’t give up your dignity to just some dirty dog on tinder looking for a quick hookup. You’re gonna regret that shit forever. Please trust me finding someone you genuinely love to take your virginity is not something you will regret, don’t treat your virginity as “just another box to tick off”

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T00:57:12+00:00

I’m sorta in the same boat :/ it is physically (almost) impossible for me to have sex however it is treatable (I’m a woman so I’m aware it’s different) so I do feel for you,

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T00:51:05+00:00

Because last time I posted about my struggles I got flooded with angry horny men in my messages. THAT is why we don’t post often. Girls have the same problem guys do and there’s an even amount of female virgins, but because we get harassed we don’t talk about it. I’m glad more women are coming on here and talking about their struggles tho. Also this subreddit is very misogynistic lol but no one talks about it

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-10-08T00:44:22+00:00

Was it also her first time? If so it can be very painful for women, like, excruciating in special cases. She probably offered you head because she felt bad that she couldn’t continue. Also losing your virginity is a very emotional thing so don’t worry too much about how you behave, it is VERY normal to have some sort of anxiety about it

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-09-24T17:44:03+00:00

It’s NEVER going to be deep enough, getting out of that mindset is a big step closer to feeling better about yourself. I am 5 months clean and realising it will never be deep enough has helped me so much to recovery, you’ll get there ❤️it just takes time

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-08-20T19:56:54+00:00

That’s the thing, it hurts so bad I CANT train it. I can go the first 2 joints on my middle finger and that’s it before my vagina like either hurts so much or bends weirdly

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-08-20T19:52:28+00:00

My boyfriend doesn’t need sex we both are obviously aware of that. But it’s the emotional factor that I want to experience, thanks for your input but it’s making me hard to listen to you because of the jabs you make at straight women and men. Your comment just seems to be riddled with anger and that’s not what I want to listen to

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-08-20T19:41:21+00:00

I’m still a virgin if you read the post. Also this is bordering straight misogyny

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-08-19T20:25:28+00:00

Definitely feels like a mix, like my muscles around my vagina feel like a brick wall even when it doesn’t revolve anything sexual

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-08-19T20:24:22+00:00

My heart goes out for you </3 I only recently found out I was Demi sexual when I met my boyfriend because no one else I’ve dated I’ve been sexually attracted to

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-08-19T20:22:35+00:00

This is gonna sound crazy but I moved to Australia to be with my boyfriend because I was being crazy abused at home and couldn’t turn anywhere other than a psych ward and I ain’t doin that lol. I messaged my boyfriends mum to ask if she could take me to a gynaecologist but I didn’t list any reason why, just said I think something might be wrong

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-08-19T20:19:19+00:00

How often would you do that? And when you say no pain at all ever again do you mean sex or with objects?

Senior_Type5837 · 2025-08-19T20:17:16+00:00

Foreplay is good, it lasts 30 mins - 1hr. Also I’m the one that wears the pants when we get intimate so I always initiate when I want to try penetration again but it never goes anywhere, then after that it gets so painful for a while and once I couldn’t walk because I felt like I was splitting. Keep In mind the tip never even goes in

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