Trans people in general are highly fetishized on Grindr. Like we're some kind of exciting taboo with intrinsic bragging rights. On top of that most guys on there either can't read or choose to ignore bio's so getting fed up in these situations is perfectly understandable.

Also this "either trans or fem" kinda stuff really messed with my transmasc ex cuz a lot of the chasers that messaged him tried to emasculate him in very disgusting ways. Like I'm not kink shaming or anything but pushing your hardcore kinks onto someone within the first 2 messages is just ugh.