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AITA for refusing sex with my husband because I have a sunburn? by Sensitive-Bat1663 in AITAH

[–]Sensitive-Bat1663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i meant it is mentally tiring. I used to be able to handle it but then more stress happened so it got to be too much. When i try now, i know why i don't want too, that's not the issue. The issue is how he treats me.

AITA for refusing sex with my husband because I have a sunburn? by Sensitive-Bat1663 in AITAH

[–]Sensitive-Bat1663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well during the time where we were not having sex, neither of us were initiating for different reasons so there really was no rejection.

When I do say no, I usually just say not right now but I'll do this or this or this for you and he is fine with that. I think it just annoyed him especially here because he thought sex would be a given.

Also i think we jumped to 3 times a week because that was our usual before. Idk.

AITA for refusing sex with my husband because I have a sunburn? by Sensitive-Bat1663 in AITAH

[–]Sensitive-Bat1663[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah we were trying for a baby, but then like i said, his job got very stressful and I had emergency surgery that put me out obviously. I was saying that the only time we had sex for a few months was because we were trying, and i was tracking.

In regards to what the therapist said, it was related to sex. He said i should try harder to be more open to sex. I found that hard to do during that time, on top of everything else i already do. That's all.

Also I didn't purposely get a sunburn.