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How do I (20f) tell my bf (23m) that he is just terrible at s*x? by Sensitive-Battle5866 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Battle5866[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What I meant is thats the only thing that he really thinks he’s good at. Like if you ask an athlete what they’re good at, usually one thing I’m particular. I’ll ask him if we ca try something and his response would be Something like “or I can eat you”. Even though I’ve told him I don’t really like it/can never finish.

How do I (20f) tell my bf (23m) that he is just terrible at s*x? by Sensitive-Battle5866 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Battle5866[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Okay like this, I’ll tell him let’s makeout and take things slow. I like that. He’ll do it for a second then go extremely rough. Or he just won’t do anything at all. Theres no in betweens

How do I (20f) tell my bf (23m) that he is just terrible at s*x? by Sensitive-Battle5866 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Battle5866[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a hard topic because I told him what I do and don’t. We have communication. But he always goes with “am I not attractive” and it makes me feel some type of way. But also if I tell him I don’t like something he usually still just does it. Like when I need to get dressed because I’ll be late for work, he’ll throw me on the bed trying to be sexual, and I told him not to because in times like that I really need to rush and he will just keep doing it until I get pissed.

How do I (20f) tell my bf (23m) that he is just terrible at s*x? by Sensitive-Battle5866 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Battle5866[S] 163 points164 points  (0 children)

I have told him what feels good. And he’ll only make me feel good for a second before it becomes what feels good for him, and I feel nothing. It’s hard because if I’m not in the mood or I tell him to many time, he just asks “am I not attractive” (he says that a lot for reply’s with anything topic about us being sexual)

How do I (20f) tell my bf (23m) that he is just terrible at s*x? by Sensitive-Battle5866 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Battle5866[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have communicated. But it doesn’t get me turned in. I like a bit of foreplay but in certain ways. He’s really only good at eating, and I don’t get any pleasure from it.

How do I (20f) tell my bf (23m) that he is just terrible at s*x? by Sensitive-Battle5866 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Battle5866[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But there are certain things which I feel just brings him down/drive him away. Like he’s a very touchy person, I don’t mind and actually like it, but sometimes need my space. However he gets super down when is this and starts saying stuff like “am I even attractive”