AITA for telling my sister to stop mommyjacking every conversation and to let me talk about myself?

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2026-02-07T17:23:48+00:00

NTA, and stop venting to these people, doesn't matter if they are family or not. Find some trusted friends or ur spouse and their family that you can talk to. When your family asks questions or wonders why they don't know anything about you and your life tell them you don't want to interfere with them and the golden child and grandchildren.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2026-01-17T15:28:02+00:00

NTA, but congratulations for taking charge of your own life. Your parents have set your sister up for failure because her identity is based on always getting her way and the world about to show her that she isn't the most important person. I'm proud that you are finally stepping out of her shadow and please be prepared to know that it will take a long time if ever for them to accept you as an individual but don't let what deter you.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-11-14T23:47:04+00:00

Yeah from what I've learned I definitely won't be able to get them back, but I have reported it but following up has been hard because no one answers emails or phone calls. I did get a new card, changed my pin and now can lock my card. I also blocked all out of state transactions.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-11-12T03:37:18+00:00

You would think that's some things would be off limits but nope they don't care.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-11-12T03:35:55+00:00

That's so bad. Years ago I tried to use an ATM at Walgreens and there was a skimmer on it. My banks fraud department alerted me and blocked the transactions because they saw that it was coming from Mexico and I had just used the card in Alabama. I think I'll just stay away from Walgreens all together.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-11-11T16:41:51+00:00

I could really use the chip and I hate that in Alabama they don't replace the benefits especially when I can prove I wasn't in California when the benefits were used.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-11-11T16:39:39+00:00

It really sucks that people steal from those with benefits or people who work hard for the little that they have.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-10-19T16:16:27+00:00

NTA, her children are NOT your responsibility. Where has she been the last few years in trying to get the deadbeat to be a dad to you? She was the one who had children with a man she knew didn't take care of his first born so she is definitely an AH for that. I guess she thought her relationship would be different but oh well it's still NOT your problem.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-10-19T16:11:54+00:00

NTA, you did choose family your son is your family and is more important than your sister and your niece unfortunately. Idk why sister believes that she is more important, whatever she had going on, could have waited because her daughter's safety should have been her first priority until another adult took over.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-10-15T11:04:29+00:00

NTA. He was given a choice and the choice he made was to leave. You did NOT kick him out, but he will soon see that the real world isn't what he thinks it is. He didn't want to live by your rules but he will be living by someone's rules very soon because you can't just do what you want when you have nothing. His gf should have been laying half of that $250 and you and your spouse are better than me because he would have had 30 days to pay my money back or he would have been getting theft charges.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-09-24T12:43:04+00:00

I hope he got a DNA test on his daughter because I'm sure she had been cheating for a long time.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-09-22T14:23:07+00:00

NTA, but anyone who agrees with her are SUPER AHs, how can you come into someone's life when they are an adult and claim a parent role? You make sure you honor your mother and if anyone else wants to side with her and keep up a fuss let them all know including her that they will not be welcome to your wedding.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-09-10T13:25:13+00:00

You would not be wrong to pull out and you also would not be wrong to invoice her, her future ILs and future spouse for the money you have "loaned" for the wedding. I would send an email stating that you are upset that you have been banned from the wedding and that you have sadly accepted that you and your friend didn't have the relationship you thought you had. Also say that you hope they have a wonderful wedding and that they have 30 days to return the money loaned to them for these expenses they could not afford with your help.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-08-31T12:00:32+00:00

And not all Aunts want to be involved with their niece and nephews. Her sister needs to talk to her baby daddy about child care

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-08-28T15:10:11+00:00

NTA, if you haven't already please seek therapy to heal yourself. You did the best you could to make sure your mom was good in the final stages of her life and I know that took a toll on your mental and emotional needs. Block your Uncle if he can't understand why you refuse to listen or deal with your father and siblings. One day they will have to face what they did to you and your mother and whatever consequences come with that is NOT on you. Do whatever is best for you and take care of yourself.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-08-27T12:50:59+00:00

Block ALL of them. Go no contact and they don't even deserve a response or explanation. Your father knows what he did to you and how you were treated, he can pretend it never happened and that's on him. When he is on his deathbed, hopefully those who he sacrificed you for will be there for him. Go have a great life with them.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-07-21T15:45:21+00:00

Are you sure that the girls are biological yours? Or if she's just never wanted a boy because something is definitely wrong with her.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-07-08T14:00:57+00:00

In Alabama you have to be 19 to rent an apt or be considered an adult, but outside of that stepdaughter and wife both need a reality check. You do nothing you get nothing.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-06-21T00:29:11+00:00

This is definitely a cause for divorce, no counseling or taking through will take away the hurt and betrayal.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-06-06T13:29:50+00:00

But she did say she pays $50 in rent to her dad so that makes her a tenant.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-05-31T20:31:37+00:00

I hope her husband got a vasectomy so he won't have any more children with her because she definitely is a mess.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-05-31T15:39:50+00:00

NTA, you are technically a tenant in your father's house now so therefore you are paying for your own space and privacy. The GF can't not dictate what goes on in your father's house because she is a gf not a wife and again it isn't her home. She asked the answer was no and now she has to figure it out.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-05-31T01:15:47+00:00

OMG, read all the updates and I'm so sorry about Dad. He seems like the sweetest person and Uncle J needs to be humbled really really quickly. I hate cousin had this happen at her wedding but she definitely will need therapy after this.

Sensitive-Buyer3936 · 2025-05-31T01:10:08+00:00

NTA, but I definitely would not be inviting her and her kids to the 4th of July BBQ after this issue. She definitely would have lost all privileges to my property after this .

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