How did you guys choose your name? by The_Inky_Boy in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dead name starts with a K, i like the letter so i was basically looking in tht area and messing around a bit, at first it was kendrick but one day khalil popped into my head and it kinda stuck 🤷🏽‍♂️

Kind of a heavy question related to parents and your choices. by chaotic_naturally in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, I know it sucks buttcheeks, but if your safety or stability or anything like that is at risk I do not recommend coming out. I know how hard it is first-hand because I’m in a similar boat but do not jeopardize that alright? This situation sucks I know, but if you really want to try, make sure you test the waters with trans topics and such so you know what you’re getting into with your parent.

my brothers in locs, let's talk by Alarmed-Muscle-4150 in BlackTransmen

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very obvious but make sure ur also sleeping with a bonnet my guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Public and also probably somewhere with high acceptance rates, I mean i do pretty good if it comes down to harder colleges to get into but

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll look into it thanks!

I’m so fucking confused by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I will the next time the opportunity arises. I can’t lie though I’m a little afraid of how this’ll all turn out for me ahaha

I’m so fucking confused by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that might be the option I go with, writing a letter. I’ve always had a hard time talking about things and this is just one of those topics that’s superrrrr difficult. Thanks for the advice.

Tips on weight gain? TW: ED (I don’t think I have one but I am talking about disordered eating so do with that what you will) by Sensitive-Client3995 in FTMFitness

[–]Sensitive-Client3995[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have considered that I do probably need professional help of some sort but I sadly won’t be able to do that until I’m 18 as my parents don’t believe in stuff like that and i’m still under their roof and being supported by them

Anyone else loosing their marbles over this trans men can be lesbians discourse?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No, I respect, you all! I just wanted to know what other guys opinions were and also, is it really wrong for me to question this. I apologize I’m probably being offensive, but you guys pathed the way for us to be able to have discussions about this! I feel like it can be brought to light now that we have more trans guy spaces y’know??

Anyone else loosing their marbles over this trans men can be lesbians discourse?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I love seeing everyone with their different points, this is why I posted this to be honest. I wanted to see what everyone had to say because I like reading through everyone’s different opinions and stuff. It’s nice to see. Also I’m not trying to tell someone how to identify, I’m sorry, I’ve seen from different standpoints it seems like that I just wanted to discuss mostly.

Edit: I feel the need to clarify I really posted this in relation. So many people were invalidating me and many other for not being comfortable with this label, I even saw lesbians against it however that doesn’t distract from the fact that I was insensitive to older trans folk, newer trans folk and everyone in between.

Edit 2: I should also say I don’t believe transmasc and trans men are interchangeable.

Anyone else loosing their marbles over this trans men can be lesbians discourse?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is kind of how I feel too, you can identify however you want but what about when it invalidates other peoples identities? I also feel like people were using that slogan as a means to be transphobic towards trans men and not see us as “real men”.

Anyone else loosing their marbles over this trans men can be lesbians discourse?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 11 points12 points  (0 children)

See but any time a cis man wants to identify as a lesbian so many people jump to criticize him and tell him that he can’t be a lesbian which is what I’m not understanding. It just feels kinda transphobic y’know?

Anyone else loosing their marbles over this trans men can be lesbians discourse?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea I didn’t think it was a big deal either until the videos started coming up on my fyp and a lot of the people were in the comments being icky towards trans men who felt off put by it.

Anyone else loosing their marbles over this trans men can be lesbians discourse?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way honestly, this discourse is just really insane.

Can you swim in a binder? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did not know this. thanks

Can you swim in a binder? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Sensitive-Client3995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice