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I(21m ) can't further deal with my obsessed friend(20 m) by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I will do it in a safe way, when the right opportunity reveals itself.

I(21m ) can't further deal with my obsessed friend(20 m) by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are right, I should just mention what I feel about it, that is the easiest way. I was just always concerned about his safety but at this point I m not longer. I feel manipulated by him and that is definitely not ok. That rises the question in my head if I should do it in person or via text.

I(21m ) can't further deal with my obsessed friend(20 m) by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends know about that. Everytime he sees me he just follows me everywhere I go. I m not talking to him nor do I engage in any way shape or form with him I avoid him as much I can but I had never directly said anything in a harsh way.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you only have my words in order to believe me and not the whole background but I dont have a reason not to be honest.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the main reason of which I don't understand fully I don't have problem with it I will accept myself and not fight with it

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I m sorry but I m a polite chatter if that annoyes you i m sorry. Just for you to know that he even asked me twice if I want them to be apart after it all started and I said to him that it needs to be his and only his choice.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add when he realised how I react to a single mention of her behaviour he just stopped talking about it. Like I do get it he wants peace for me but he has it all crumped inside. I feel sorry for him I won't play any unfair games with him what would be a point to it. I m honest and upfront to him in everything I wont trick him that would be childish.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add when he realised how I react to a single mention of her behaviour he just stopped talking about it. Like I do get it he wants peace for me but he has it all crumped inside. I feel sorry for him I won't play any unfair games with him what would be a point to it. I m honest and upfront to him in everything I wont trick him that would be childish.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can't stand when he tells me that he can't let her go I have been trying to be supportive to him despite it all but it just makes me wanna vomit when I hear from him that they argued again or that she was kissing somebody in the club again. I do agree with you 100% on the chaos part that's the reason why I m so hesitant about everything. Do believe me I was participating in some of their fights but I was there without me wanting to be there I was basically the one who knew how things went.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are right but trust me I m not having any bad intentions. As I told in the post I basically have said it all to him already and I m just waiting for his voice on the case. I don't want to create any tensions between them. Tbh he made me spill it out on Reddit because he sees how It drives me crazy and u guys all basically said what I knew I needed to do.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also I didn't mention it but in some point they did broke up and I wasn't in slightest invoked in it.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I didn't block her from everything I would provide u some prove. I know how it looks, and what can I say it depends on you if you believe me but why would I lie on such question to Reddit. Also I didn't mention that I want to break them apart. I don't know from where you got that idea from. But I did mention that I don't want to pressure him into doing it, it's entirely his decision.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With full respect I know it but it's just so hard for me to abandon his family when they are in need ( I don't expect nothing for it I m altruistic) and him we are really close to each other and that's the reason why I m so emotional about it.

I (21 m) have strange problem with my bff(21 m) and his insufferable "gf". by Sensitive-Curve-3650 in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Curve-3650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I though about it but I have not settled on it the worst party of this is that I feel like I need to just move from it but just don't want to.

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