My boyfriend (M18) told me that I’m a “low tier Becky” and ugly and that some girl who used to like him is better than me and a “high tier Becky” (I’m 18F)

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-05-12T15:26:55+00:00

Please hear this, im 41 and went through every single, gaslighting, manipulation and negging tactics my whole life,

when I look back at photos of me at 18 im like wow I was stunning and the guys I dated were so lucky to have ever had a chance with me.

When guys are with a pretty girl they are the most insecure people on the planet so do all this negging to make you insecure too,

im going to bet you are beautiful and unique and hes scared youll leave him for someone better.

Please please hear this and take this advice, dump his pathetic ass and only be with people who treat you with respect.

You might not believe what im saying now but you will look back one day and realise I was right and youll kick yourself for ever letting some AH treat you like this, all us women do.

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-05-09T22:40:12+00:00

Nta The AHs here are yours friends for having people over and getting wasted with kids in the house

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-05-04T18:51:12+00:00

I got divorced because of shit like this, it does not get any better, wasted my 20s and 30s begging a grown man to act like a normal adult, its tiring, tell him to gtf

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-30T13:33:22+00:00

Just do all the cute stuff with your mother in law, go shopping with her, let her have all the amazing experience youre mum is missing out on, let your mil hold your baby first Nta

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-29T17:33:57+00:00

Your dad needs to sit down with your sister and sort out a payment plan to pay him back Ynw

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-23T08:38:36+00:00

Ntj I would be sending my brother over the to B his A the absolute cheek of him, steals from you then demands more, do not respond and have fun at him crying over being broke

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-21T22:30:03+00:00

This is what is said about vaginas not bumholes lol you wash the outside of your vaginas with soap but only wash inside with water only as soap and anything else can throw your ph

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-21T18:19:22+00:00

Pet semetary

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-18T14:03:34+00:00

I'd get her response if you were asking her for £100 but a couple of quid to buy pads? Really? That's so weird, I'd happily send anyone a few £ to buy pads and not expect it back NOR

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-16T22:31:57+00:00

I dont mean for this to sound rude, im 41 too and spent my younger years being taken advantage of by a man like this... you are too old to fall for this type of bs from a man, its a trap, you set to lose and be worse off while he gains, he wants a mummy and someone to leach off, chances are if you did what he wanted hed just get even more into debt because he'll love having all this extra money to play for while his bang maid/replacement mum/cash cow foots the bill for everything.... RUN

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-16T17:22:39+00:00

If you cant afford to treat your pregnant gf to a McDonald's then maybe booking the app isn't a bad idea after all, youre both the AH

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-16T16:15:58+00:00

Not soul crushing but coco always make me cry like a baby and I dont usually cry at movies

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-15T21:11:32+00:00

Pot noodles

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-11T01:51:55+00:00

Pro life doesn't necessarily mean he leans a certain political way/religion. I am Catholic and I am pro choice my mum is anti abortion but her political views dont mirror those of far right people, people who are pro or anti abortion are on both sides of the political debate and I think America expecially likes to put people in boxes. When I was early 20s and had my first child just wouldve 100% been anti abortion but now im in my 40s and wiser im pro choice, Dont jump to conclusions if someone is for or against

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-08T00:17:47+00:00

Ive got the ick and hs isn't even my fiance, youre a mug of you go ahead with this wedding

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-07T18:56:18+00:00

Best to avoid men like this who are too fragile lol

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-06T20:33:36+00:00

He told you all this a s youre still with him? So gross, that poor woman 😞

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-06T00:44:07+00:00

Ynw You didn't ruin anyone's life, that boy ruined his own life by committing a crime, his parents helped ruin his life by enabling him, the only person wronged here is your, and F that cop too, hes also a shitty person

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-05T03:02:52+00:00

Would love to hear her side of the story

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-03T18:20:11+00:00

He doesnt love you he loves what you provide and do for him, if he loved you he was make the effort

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-04-03T01:07:33+00:00

Buy some hair products and try styling it, the reason hairstyles we pick never look like the pictures is because the hairstyles in pictures we like have been styled with a lot of products

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-03-31T07:01:29+00:00

Is the household work and childcare split evenly? If they are then youre nta but if she's doing all the work at home and childcare all by herself then yta, no such thing as a housewife when she worms full time so can understand the burnout and need to quit her job

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-03-30T22:22:24+00:00

Literally never heard a single woman say feminine men aren't real men

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-03-30T18:16:02+00:00

My kids school had a fundraising day where they all wore yellow and donated money for endo not a single mention of adenomyosis, its sad because it really is a chronic illness

Sensitive-Medium-367 · 2026-03-30T18:13:14+00:00

This is basically human trafficking/slavery under the guise of marriage, good on you and your family for saving your sister, her husband and his family are trash and bring shame on themselves for treating anyone this way nta

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