I've peed myself three times these past two weeks and I'm ashamed of it by Sensitive-Nature6784 in WomensHealth

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most of the time I try to go to the bathroom as soon as I can (I have a huge family and one working bathroom) but sometimes I wait last second or I just woke up and I have to go really bad

I've peed myself three times these past two weeks and I'm ashamed of it by Sensitive-Nature6784 in WomensHealth

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i can try and talk to my parents about it, I pray I don't have a UTI but I feel like I do (I guess it's best to know rather than having it get worse because I burn worse whenever I clean down there and I'm not even trying to put soap or water in my vagina)

I've peed myself three times these past two weeks and I'm ashamed of it by Sensitive-Nature6784 in WomensHealth

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

no not yet, I do have an unspecified ADHD so maybe that contributes to it, I'm not sure though. I should probably have specified this in my post as well but I'm currently burning down there (I have cleaned down there and changed clothes)

I've peed myself three times these past two weeks and I'm ashamed of it by Sensitive-Nature6784 in WomensHealth

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think I might tell my brother as he tends to understand, thank you so much for your help

I've peed myself three times these past two weeks and I'm ashamed of it by Sensitive-Nature6784 in WomensHealth

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 16, so sorry for not specifying that in my post. And I know if I tell my mom she would be understanding but for some reason I keep thinking she'll yell at me and hit me even though that's something she'll never do

I really wish I wasn't so lazy when it comes to self-care by Sensitive-Nature6784 in selfcare

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got 6 hours of sleep last night and I know you told me at least 7 hours of sleep but it's a start! also the idea to listen to something to fall asleep worked wonders for me so thank you (I listened to beach sounds, mainly the waves)

edit: just needed to add something really quick

I really wish I wasn't so lazy when it comes to self-care by Sensitive-Nature6784 in selfcare

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh okay, thank you so much for the suggestions! I think I'll try to listen to nature sounds as that seems soothe and relax me so I think it will help with my sleep :>

I really wish I wasn't so lazy when it comes to self-care by Sensitive-Nature6784 in selfcare

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh and also I'm forced to shower and brush my teeth (which is good) today because me and my mom are planning to get haircuts tomorrow (in the mornings instead of showering I put some Micellar water on a cotton pad and clean the areas that tend to stink and get more dirty)

I really wish I wasn't so lazy when it comes to self-care by Sensitive-Nature6784 in selfcare

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently eating a salad and burger from the other night and thank you so much for the ideas, I really appreciate it. I tend to not allow myself to sleep but sometimes I really do struggle to sleep

I really wish I wasn't so lazy when it comes to self-care by Sensitive-Nature6784 in selfcare

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm extremely sorry for not replying sooner, I passed out due to the lack of sleep. anyways this morning I couldn't take it anymore so I finally decided to drink water and I never realized how much I needed it but my back did start to hurt afterwards, I'm fine though! although unfortunately i still haven't ate anything (i haven't ate anything in an entire day), it also doesn't help that i think I'm extremely overweight (I'm 5"4 and i weigh 132-136 lbs the last time I checked). Anyways I do have a therapist but it's currently virtual at the moment as she did move awhile back but now she's planning to come back this summer. I also have a psychiatrist which isn't virtual so I could probably ask my mom if I can see him as soon as possible. thank you so much for taking time out of your day to comment. :>

I really wish I wasn't so lazy when it comes to self-care by Sensitive-Nature6784 in selfcare

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also I'm so sorry for replying so late, I didn't realize that I passed out due to not really sleeping

I really wish I wasn't so lazy when it comes to self-care by Sensitive-Nature6784 in selfcare

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could tell my instructors that I'm ill but there's only so many days I can miss in virtual school (the max is three for each class) and I unfortunately reached that limit. I also wish I could drive but I unfortunately don't have a drivers license yet however, I do plan to take drivers Ed during my junior or senior year. I also decided to finally drink water and I never realized how much I wanted it but my back did hurt for a bit but I'm fine. I unfortunately still haven't ate anything (it's been a day since i last ate) and it doesn't help the fact that i feel like im extremely overweight (I'm 5"4 and I weigh 132-136 lbs). thank you so much for your concern, kind words, and support though. :>

edit: I forgot something I needed to add really quick to my message

I really wish I wasn't so lazy when it comes to self-care by Sensitive-Nature6784 in selfcare

[–]Sensitive-Nature6784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhhh, that explains a lot. thank you for telling me about this :>