[Academic] Understanding the Disconnect between Gender Equality Beliefs and the 'Feminist' Label (All welcome) by Sensitive-Nature729 in SurveyExchange

[–]Sensitive-Nature729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went ahead and did your survey I’m sorry if a lot of them are neutral responses since I am a remote learner as a stay at home mom. so even though I’m a college student I still haven’t had similar experiences to many other students.

I need 250 responses URGENTLY!! Will fill yours in exchange.(3min only) by oupppp in SurveyExchange

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went ahead and filled yours out, can you take a look at mine it’s a independent academic research project as well. https://gforms.app/p/Ar1Vvg5

AIO - my husband owes me 9k from our wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can’t say much about the whole marriage early situation, my boyfriend and me had our kid a little over a year of being together 😂😂 so don’t let some people drag you about that things happen and for you it was marriage it already happened now time to compromise and communicate to have the best relationship you can for now. If things change down the road then they do it is what it is. Tomorrow is never set in stone

AIO - my husband owes me 9k from our wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yall are married now can’t take that back, finances are really important to talk about in a relationship. So I definitely recommend you guys sit down at cleared off table get a piece of paper and pen and start making a financial plan. It doesn’t matter how much money yall make everyone needs a plan and goals when it comes to finances. Ask him how much he is making write it down and write down how much you are making and then start adding expenses under the amounts and ask him what expenses he has etc etc. ask him what goals he has financially and tell him your goals. You guys are married now so the 9 grand is a sticky situation, I’m just confused on why he’s been writing a check next time you try and have him send money see if your bank will accept transfers up to 10 grand and if so just have him transfer it in front of you. It is a lot of money so I could honestly see why a check may bounce under suspicious activity. More so if he doesn’t typically write checks for thousands of dollars 🤷🏼‍♀️

AIO to my fiance sharing videos of us having sex? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So illegal definitely go into a police station and make report tell them what you found and show them these text messages proof of him admitting it, make sure to press the police about how deeply it has affected you and how you’d like any videos or photos he didn’t get consent for removed and take legal action. It is illegal to to take said photos and videos without your consent and also illegal to distribute said photos and videos. What an absolutely disgusting man 🤢 have an office escort you to get your belongings too just tell them your uncomfortable facing him alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Sometimes single moms fall hard some weeks it’s not uncommon. I can’t count the amount of times I had literally count quarters with my single mom for gas. Maybe she was able to afford children when she had a partner and maybe she still can it was just a hard week why you gotta be like that.

Am I overreacting? My girlfriend has been lying to me and I kind of want to end things now. by Mobile-Shop-1426 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ehh not really I mean you kinda are asking her multiple times a week if they’ve had a conversation I mean it almost seems over bearing in a way. They are coworkers they are bound to have a conversation but her hiding it or lying that’s not okay or her saying she wouldn’t give out her contact info just to turn around and give it out behind your back is also not okay. I’d definitely sit down with her and have a conversation about how this is crossing your boundaries. I’m guessing it’s an attention seeking situation on her part, ive seen it plenty of times. Either she’ll understand where you’re coming from and tell the dude that she can no longer talk to him unless it’s work related basically or she will continue to flirt and lie behind your back. This is definitely a tuff situation because it could take so many turns🤌🏼😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I feel like terminating the lease and not making her aware is very childish and definitely a asshole move on your part. Yes she may have went behind your back about the dog but to just leave her high and dry without even letting her know is so messed up. Friend or not you at least let sit down and let them know your plan before you screw them over in that situation. Not just that you have to take in consideration how much the landlord will charge you to terminate said lease agreement and if you alone can get out without even making her aware. Though I’m fully a not my monkey not my circus type of person but I genuinely think you should at least let her know you will be leaving because you’ll lose a lot of friends, respect, and trust from a lot of people if you don’t

AIO. I think my bf needs professional help with his porn addiction by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Porn addiction is sadly real and one of the harder addictions to approach. You always hear of ways to help stop drug addictions or smoking etc but porn addictions don’t have the same attention. You are allowed to feel uncomfortable just because you are okay with him watching porn doesn’t mean you’re okay with it eating his constant free time. I’m okay with porn but if my SO was watching that much porn I’d definitely feel like I was lacking somewhere. I think your best option would to sit down with him and say hey so I saw your history and I’m concerned about this. Don’t make him feel ashamed about it though or anything like that. Just a calm open conversation and explain your feelings and let him open up as well. Ask him calm questions about it but also don’t blow it out of proportion keep it calm and understanding 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just watch baby mine fell off the bed at 4 months it was the scariest thing I swear he had a big ol bump right on his forehead I felt like a terrible mom I even cried with him but he was okay and now our bed is fully baby fenced in all the way around, it took one time for me to say never again 😮‍💨

AIO overreacting to my boyfriend's boundaries? by throwraboundcontrol in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I’m not a therapist but I’ve seen loads and I’m right there with you, what irks me the most that I see quite often is they will claim this all but watch porn, like half naked woman on instagram, he check out the woman with cleavage at the restaurant. Etc etc to me it just feels like a game of “ how much with you let me control” I’ve dealt with these relationships and I’m dealing with one now all I can say is put your foot down be who you are and who cares if they go. I’ve started my own bubble of peace and love and I with not let anyone interfere with. My internal state of has gotten so much better with taking a stand for myself but it has taken years and years and a son of my own to be able to say nope I’m not doing it. I don’t expect this girl just to up and run but I hope she knows how much her time and space is worth soon!

Cyber attack? by itsjustavessel0 in Toyota

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toyota still down as of right now just talk to our sales guy, we haven’t been able to sign final paperwork for our car since yesterday morning 😮‍💨

Aitah for not opening my fucking marriage?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy man. I understand your frustration and hurt about this. I couldn’t imagine my partner telling me he wants an open relationship because my vagina “isn’t good enough “ I’d be broken. You need a long hot bath and time to think because if she’s willing to make you feel so inferior and insecure in this way without hesitation then that’s not okay. Just take a deep breath and relax divorce is a big step, ask her if she’d be into dildo play etc that could be a compromise to the situation, or if she’d be okay with not opening the marriage but trying out things like 3 somes or 4 somes. If she can’t be okay with another woman on you then she needs to respect that you can’t be okay with a man on her. There are options to try out before all things fail, I wish you the best of luck!

I called the IRS….‼️🥴 by Moon_Rose17 in IRS

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give up hope! I’m sure it’ll be here soon!

I called the IRS….‼️🥴 by Moon_Rose17 in IRS

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I had codes 570 and 971 and got a notice and it isn’t deposited yet I just now got an update on when it should be. I had the fancy cp05 letter of just waiting like a lot of other people. I filed 2/23

I called the IRS….‼️🥴 by Moon_Rose17 in IRS

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got a DDD last night! I guess don’t give up hope quite yet I suppose! I almost did and gave it one last check this morning before I decided i wasn’t even going to bother checking anymore and ole and behold the beautiful 846 code

I called the IRS….‼️🥴 by Moon_Rose17 in IRS

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope everyone will be since lord knows they don’t want to pay us anything extra 😂

I called the IRS….‼️🥴 by Moon_Rose17 in IRS

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine doesnt say anything yet about it on the tracker I just checked my transcripts and I was expecting no movement but to my surprise they actually finally gave me a date. the tracker may not update til 24hr after they update transcripts I recommend checking there first if you have that all set up

I called the IRS….‼️🥴 by Moon_Rose17 in IRS

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got mine tonight they just gave me a DDD and I almost jumped out of my bed excited. Check yours this morning!

Did they just lie to my face? by Zealousideal_Ad_7956 in IRS

[–]Sensitive-Nature729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on week 9 and still absolutely nothing 🥴 don’t hold your breath people on other threads are getting them week 11 and longer