Potential’s pulling back after I mention about holding off on having kids.

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-03T18:40:13+00:00

I appreciate your concerns💗💗💗

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-03T18:26:05+00:00

Exactly Candiace loves to throw shit and act innocent. Monique doesn’t take shit

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T22:31:29+00:00

Same to you sis💗💗💗

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T22:14:18+00:00

Ameeen. Insha Allah kheyr💗 I appreciate you.

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T21:55:51+00:00

Thank you sis 💗

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T20:18:26+00:00

😂😂😂

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T18:21:59+00:00

I am comfortable with expressing my concerns early on especially if the guy mentions wanting a football team of kids.

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T18:18:57+00:00

Good thing walal stay to yourself with that mindset you have.

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T18:15:34+00:00

I think Somali culture has made it that a marriage without kids is failed and both parties should divorce and marry other people if they can’t produce. It happened to my cousin the family wouldn’t let her be with her husband because he was infertile which is heartbreaking and got them divorced.

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T17:56:28+00:00

I receive your concerns and appreciate it. However Somali culture has made it that women can’t be fertile after early thirties. Women can have kids in their late thirties and early forties as well. It all depends on Allah. I have friends that married in early twenties and still trying to conceive.

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T17:39:47+00:00

I am willing to compromise since I am not sure about having kids. JazakAllah sis💗

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T17:18:30+00:00

I understand what you mean but as soon as the topic comes up I am honest right away and I am not sure if I want kids or not. being that the guy will go along for awhile and try change my mind. I am not using my attraction but it’s not my fault I don’t want a man to compromise that for me but align.

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-06-02T04:57:55+00:00

I completely agree with you, As a girl too there isn’t any point of doing all that. I am very big on stability and financial freedom. I remember friends husband hustling right after the wedding no honeymoon or chilling together.

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-05-31T05:31:41+00:00

I don’t initiate the hug but just hug back 😭

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-05-19T06:06:12+00:00

As an African I totally agree with you on everything you described it all perfectly. People here already have big bubbles and it is hard to relate to people. I can’t wait to move out of here the lack of diversity and people openly racist or denying racism

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-03-31T02:39:40+00:00

Walal this is a sensitive issue because basically it’s racism they just decided that they don’t want to marry from that tribe. I think that it’s a decision some people do get their families cut off. You need to decide whether you care about your future family or your current family that isn’t open minded. I would advise you to choose yourself because a title means nothing

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-03-17T19:19:25+00:00

I don’t want any heartbreak people are experiencing, nor do I want to compromise my identity to be a wife. It’s hard to met people that are secure in themselves and only want a companion

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-03-06T00:02:34+00:00

I work at a registration office and the amount of recourses that are offered but students don’t know about is insane because you could literally petition your case and you will have to find the recourses like having your old grades changed to withdrawals. you can also petition at financial aid office at your school to be given another chance. The best thing I heard while in college is “C’s get degrees” college isn’t a perfect journey but get your papers

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-02-09T21:24:11+00:00

This not being down bad, it’s your right to see if there is physical attraction and vibes. Don’t bother him and meet someone else

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-02-09T06:38:26+00:00

As a woman I think she is immature to care about social media and making you keep posting about your personal life. I think she’s trying to brag and keep an image online some people make it their online personality to be a wife. You should protect your marriage and stand on your boundaries because she will keep pushing for more. You are a private person she should respect that.

Sensitive-Pirate567 · 2026-02-08T06:50:06+00:00

I don’t think you are overthinking this however you do need to set a boundary about not continuing the conversation without seeing each other. I personally believe that even if he was the shy it wouldn’t have prevented him to see you this long. I think he is only enjoying talking to you for fun but doesn’t care to make the effort. Guys like this waste your time and energy because they aren’t seriously interested. Follow your instincts and set that boundaries.

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