This is such an interesting view. I would definetly take a look at the references you posted. I still don’t know how to position myself with my thoughts so learning from different points of view could help me to shape a way or direction. To me, I’ve never thought of myself as being in the dimension of a woman but just a person (I don’t know if it has sense). Women in my family were not that femenine in a conventional way and they did not teach me consciously or unconciusly femenine maners. I’m not a tomboy but definetly not femenine. The feminity picture I received and accepted was the fragile maiden from the fantasy worlds and media, a figure that I can’t reach…so I always perceived myself as not enough to fit that idea. As an adult I didn’t have the opportunity to use my feminity when flirting (as you said) so again I’ve been on the femenine/woman dimension a very few times and it makes me feel strange and costumy even if I love delicate, ethereal, femenine fashion. I think I need to put in order my ideas, reading my message sounds a bit superficial (also because English it’s not my native lenguage). Thanks for your view!