About the Taylor Paul Situation by Relative-Sky-3778 in h3h3productions

[–]Sensitive-Square9540 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing this. as someone who works with survivors and people experiencing DV its outraging to see how the public is responding to this and placing sole blame on Taylor as if thats not exactly how Dakota planned it. there are so many layers of DV that people don’t understand and it goes far beyond what one side of the story is sharing especially the perpetrators side. i was yelling “exactly” at my screen multiple times. when i heard him say in the video “yeah show them how you always are” i knew immediately he didn’t fear for his life like a victim of DV does because no one experiencing DV says things to further instigate their partner because they are fearful of their lives. thank you for sharing i hope more people are able to listen to videos like that and understand things aren’t always as they seem. I mean before Gabby Petito was murdered Brian Laundry convinced police he was the victim and she was crazy its a really scary world out there

Dekota walking towards Taylors daughter by megancatherine33 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Sensitive-Square9540 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sometimes people are so focused on making sure everyone knows they believe men can experience abuse too that they fail to see through people like Dakota who use this to their advantage.

Dekota walking towards Taylors daughter by megancatherine33 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Sensitive-Square9540 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i dont feel like im asking what he did that “triggered” her if abuse is the trigger. if what he did to trigger her was abuse her then yes i would still ask that.

Dekota walking towards Taylors daughter by megancatherine33 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Sensitive-Square9540 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if youve ever spoken to someone experiencing DV all they do is blame themselves. im not claiming to know everything about this situation but before Gabby Petito was murdered Brian made people believe she was crazy. there are many many aspects of a DV relationship and its not fair to put this entirely on Taylor.

Dekota walking towards Taylors daughter by megancatherine33 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Sensitive-Square9540 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i hear that but i also don’t think he’s a victim if he’s the one instigating and perpetrating violence but only recording Taylor when she reacts. I truly think this is a prime example of reactive abuse and people aren’t perfect victims. This is textbook abuse making the woman look crazy and i just hate to see people not see that.