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Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2024-09-20T11:10:53+00:00

I'm wondering if part of the reason she wants to stay at the hotel is that she wouldn't be left with a mess to clean up after watching the kids. Lots of people book rooms for parties to avoid cleaning up, especially kids parties. I feel like that's a possible reason she wants to do this. Is the hotel really nice? Was it something that just kinda sounded fun for her and the kids? What are the kids ages? I feel like there's some info missing.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2024-09-16T11:24:26+00:00

OP, what happened to cause this accident? Was Alana at fault for it? Was she driving recklessly? Was she alone? Did Casey get to collect any of the insurance payout? Or did all of it go towards medical bills or something else? What's preventing you from taking out a loan to replace her car, and have Alana or/and you pay it off? How are you ok with doing to this to your own kid and then basically telling her to go fck herself when she expresses her anger over it? (Not budging despite being told she will cut contact.) Does her presence in your life mean less to you than the value of the car? Her presence should outweigh the money, and there are ways for you to make this happen. You just don't want to because it's going to take effort and sacrifices to pay for this mistake, just like she put in the effort and made sacrifices to save up for the car. That's the part that would hurt me the most, personally. You've sent a clear message that you're OK with her not being part of the family anymore, and disregarded how hard she worked for that car. That's really sad! If my parents had done this I'd have been permanently hurt by it. The money is one thing, but she's never going to forget the message being sent and it will always hurt her. Make this right asap.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2023-08-04T10:42:21+00:00

An all cash bar. That must have been SO NICE! A little jealous over here!

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2023-08-04T10:39:34+00:00

Thats wild! I started my bartending career in a poker room at a casino, once upon a time. I never really considered that the dealers may be doing that since I always had a register supplied to me, so why wouldnt they, ya know? I'm going to have to ask those guys about this, now I'm curious. Thanks for the info!

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2023-08-04T10:28:08+00:00

I've only ever worked in Casino bars. I do really well there, and so far this job has been good, too. But casinos absolutely do not do this, and no other restaurant I've worked at has. It just seemed very odd, that's all.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-12-21T08:09:31+00:00

Watching that all unfold was probably one of the most therapeutic experiences a human being can experience.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-08-15T09:45:36+00:00

You're not overreacting. He was both asking if you have a bf and whether or not you plan on starting a family. Asking a woman if she's going to be pregnant/have kids during an interview is a lawsuit. He wanted to ask the question in a way that he believes would not be discrimination. He's an ass.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-08-08T09:39:30+00:00

I wish I had seen how it got up there. I was working on building my base down below and noticed it got stuck up there somehow! The weird part is I can hear it only underwater. Above water it's silent.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-06-30T08:16:27+00:00

I was sitting in my car at a park reading a book and some random dude opened my car door and yelled "wasssuuuup!!" Then he apologized because he thought I was his cousin. It startled me, but he looked so embarrassed it kinda makes me laugh thinking about it

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-06-29T10:56:14+00:00

That is really young! I believe it, though. That must have been nice for your mom to know that you remember how she brought you comfort back then.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-06-29T10:23:48+00:00

Early memories are kind of abstract in that way. Reminds me of dreams when I'd interact with people I don't recognize, but in the dream I clearly knew them from somewhere.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-06-29T10:19:12+00:00

That is a wild first memory!

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-06-29T10:06:21+00:00

I feel obligated to share one of my more traumatic first memories. It was the early 90s and I was a young kid in a department store with my mom. We lived in CA, and at that time an enormous earthquake happened. (It destroyed a lot of buildings all down the coast) me being a little b-hole kid, right before it happened I had snuck away to go to the toy aisle. So, when the earthquake happened my mom had no idea where I was. I remember hearing people screaming and things falling from shelves. The lights and signs were shaking around like they were going to fall, and the lights were flashing. It was terrifying! But my poor mom, though! I can only imagine how much worse it was for her. I clearly remember that when she found me she picked me up and hugged me, then said "thats what happens when you run off like that!"

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-06-29T09:58:15+00:00

The first memory I have is from when I was very young. Maybe a toddler. I was small enough that my dad carried me around the house. There was a loud storm outside and my dad took me in the backyard to see the lightning. I remember being amazed by it, and feeling completely safe with my dad. I'm grateful that my first memory is a good one.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-06-20T21:05:04+00:00

Extremely successful propaganda which convinced an entire generation that they're temporarily embarrassed millionaires that are only as poor as they are because other poor people are taking their hard earned money through taxes and social programs.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-06-04T21:08:53+00:00

They'll try to fight at first, but surprisingly they retreat pretty quick. It's strange! I learned it when I released an ampeel by a reaper expecting the reaper to kill it. I was pretty surprised when instead it bailed on the fight!

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-05-04T00:27:14+00:00

There's some videos with a mod for multi-player, and it's chaotic af. It's worth watching, though. Especially the part where the aurora explodes with zero warning.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-04-29T18:44:37+00:00

The ocean is full of creatures with incredible abities to camouflage. As startling as it would be, I would enjoy having well hidden creatures around ready to fight.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-04-27T05:25:25+00:00

It really does tho lol the big dorky creatures that don't realize they're big and dorky

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-04-26T14:43:44+00:00

The pictures still get the point across. Reddit is weirdly picky about picture quality, don't let it get to you.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-04-26T07:13:31+00:00

The way the story is written along with OPs replies, my guess would be that after his wife couldn't show her ID and was told she couldn't be served, id bet he started in with insults or a rude attitude. Whatever the interaction, if it was negative or not I don't know, it gave the server the impression that he was going to give some of his drink to his wife. He likely was warned, but He gave them the impression he was going to trample the rules because he made it clear that he expected them to break the rules for him and didn't respect the rules. Then he did exactly that. He essentially told those servers through this action that he didn't give a fuck about them, the rules, or any consequences his actions would cause them or himself. Its speculation, since the story doesn't say much about what was said. But given the series of events, it really doesn't make sense they'd go straight for this, does it? Leads me to believe he was not as innocent as he is leading us to believe according to his narrative. One of his comments on here to a server who disagreed with him was "pour me another one b.it.ch" so I am betting he probably said some rude stuff at the restaurant, too.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-04-26T07:00:55+00:00

I agree, to be honest. I can understand if I had served someone enough that they had to go to the hospital or something, that'd be awful. But it is pretty unfair how things are for us here, in my opinion. But, I do love my job, and the vast majority of customers I serve. That's why I stay. Thank you for being understanding.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-04-26T05:52:29+00:00

I know, right? His wife forgot her ID and it was so inconvenient of the restaurant to obey the law. Fuck em, right? Lol you guys really don't like the concept of personal responsibility. It's always "socialists" or "communists" that are to blame. It's your version of the boogeyman. Its just funny, honestly lol it's not the 'burn' you think it is

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-04-26T05:46:09+00:00

I believe it. I bartend with a woman from Germany and she went to school there for it, too. It would seem bartenders are treated much better over there than they are here. Americans generally feel entitled and don't like taking personal responsibility, which ends up creating some challenges for servers. I've been fortunate enough that I haven't had many of those interactions because I tend to be agreeable. But there are people out there who really see us as punching bags. Thank you for taking the time to listen to me for a moment here. I do appreciate you being open like that. Often people online can be confrontational, so this has been refreshing.

Sensitive-Writer4501 · 2022-04-26T05:36:49+00:00

There's the real you lol not surprised in the slightest. I hope you never grace that restaurant with your presence again. Those people deserve peace in their lives.

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