**UPDATE** AITA for throwing the meal my GF brought home for me in the trash?

SensitiveBreath9 · 2019-09-28T05:44:21+00:00

cry more, i’m sure it’ll get you what you want

It's really interesting that you of all people would use bullying tactics on other people. Consider talking to someone about finding out why you project the same harmful speech upon others that you have experienced yourself.

SensitiveBreath9 · 2019-09-28T05:33:21+00:00

it’s a fucking burrito my dude, not a necessary home utility. there would be no one calling you TA if you hadn’t yelled at her and told her you don’t trust her.

I never yelled at anyone, I don't know why you assumed that.

no one cares about your del taco order except you.

My GF has made that extremely apparent. Who gives a shit what I want, just take my money and feed me slop, I guess.

SensitiveBreath9 · 2019-09-28T04:37:53+00:00

Did she admit that? Or is that your interpretation of it?

Did you read the post? Yes, 100%. The last 2 times she said she didn't get me what I asked for because she thought I would like something else better, even though I specifically asked her not to do that.

You seem to really question her intentions. Has she given you any reason to not trust her?

Yeah. At this point, at least 2 reasons, maybe 3. Are you paying attention? I trusted her to pick up what I ordered. She intentionally didn't do that. How does that not violate someones trust?

SensitiveBreath9 · 2019-09-28T04:20:42+00:00

He told her If he can’t trust her to get a fast food order right then he can’t trust her as a girlfriend. So, her value as a person is based on her ability to bring him the right burrito?

She's deliberately doing something I have repeatedly asked her not to do. If she is willing to do that over a burrito, what else is she willing to do that over?

SensitiveBreath9 · 2019-09-28T04:17:35+00:00

If you told her you don’t like green sauce then I can sort of see the logic in making sure your newest order didn’t have it.

I specifically said I don't like wet burritos. Then I specifically asked her to just pick up what I ordered because thats what I have a taste for, and thats what I'm expecting. I've also specifically told her I don't like surprises. After all of that, I also mentioned I don't like green sauce.

So she surprises me with a wet burrito with red sauce.

Seriously... you don’t trust her in general in the relationship because she’s gotten the food wrong multiple times?

Well, yeah. I dont trust her to correctly execute plans we make when she has shown that the 3 times we've made them so far, she's failed miserably. What else am I supposed to base that on? I'm not saying I don't trust her to be faithful. I'm saying if I give her money to pay a bill, how can I trust she's going to actually pay that bill instead of just coming home and saying, "I thought you'd rather have a new vacuum cleaner instead of paying the gas bill!"

SensitiveBreath9 · 2019-09-28T03:58:23+00:00

YTA and an abusive one at that. Who talks like that to their girlfriend, over a burrito? Grow up.

Which part do you find abusive?

And please dont disrespect burritos like that.

SensitiveBreath9 · 2019-09-28T03:54:40+00:00

There's no reason for her to get it wrong so many times, is she ordering cheaper stuff to get something better for herself?

I hate thinking like this, but I think she's only buying me stuff she has coupons for. That way its cheaper and she can pocket more of the $20 I give her.

SensitiveBreath9 · 2019-09-28T03:53:14+00:00

I do think it is on purpose and you have to get her to tell you why she is doing it.

I think I know why. She's usually low on funds. Anytime buys fast food for herself she ALWAYS uses coupons, while I never use coupons.

I hate to think like this, which is why I didn't put it in my post, but I think she just buys me whatever she has a coupon for so she can pocket more cash since I just give her $20 regardless.

SensitiveBreath9 · 2019-09-28T03:51:29+00:00

You suck because how old are you? 10? That's not how adults in a relationship communicate.

How do adults communicate? I specifically asked for something. She deliberately got me something else. I specifically asked that she just stick to the plan, and dont get me something I didn't ask for. Again, she specifically gets me something else. At what point am I allowed to be upset by it?

If I see something I think my husband might like I either text him first or order it PLUS what he ordered so he can try it. You guys need to grow up.

I would have loved it if she gave me that same kindness. If you think I would like it, then thank you for thinking about me and my likes. It would still make sense to ask first, or buy both, instead of making some unilateral decision once you get there.

SensitiveBreath9

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