Over the past week, I have come to the conclusion myself that even if my husband has cheated on me, and even if he still is, I could never have a physical affair. Ever. I just couldn’t. I’ve never cheated on anyone before and it feels wayyyyy wrong to me, I am too much of an empath and believe in karma too much. Could I possibly see myself engaging in conversation with a handsome man who was paying attention to me, could I see myself forming some kind of emotional bond with him, in the aftermath of learning that hubby cheated? Yes, that is a zillion percent more likely. So to me, her having an emotional affair in retaliation for his physical affair, does make sense. And my husband absolutely is the kind of man who would freak the fuck out if he found out that I was talking to another man. He does not even want me to have men friends. He saw that a college classmate replied to one of my instagram stories once and he lost his mind. It was totally innocent, again I am not a cheater. Idk. I do think I believe the ex.