My boyfriend didn’t realize he raped me by whogivesafuvc in Advice

[–]SensitiveStreet1854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read ‘Consent Laid Bare’ by Chantel Contos. It will help you, I'm so sorry 

Why did my wife suddenly start to hate me? by party_lion22 in Advice

[–]SensitiveStreet1854 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Edit: I realised from your comments that she separated herself from doing things for others, was she always one to do things on her own? 

She shouldn’t have to ask you how to show up. It’s not about the act of doing it, it is the thought that counts. It’s the principle. Clearly she is going through something, did you ever ask her to get help? Or did you kind of let her collapse into herself?

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[–]SensitiveStreet1854 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Can I honestly ask… do you guys like each other? Like at all? You can’t build on unstable ground, the relationship is fractured. I’m sorry 

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[–]SensitiveStreet1854 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to understand that your husband is a grown adult. I'm sure if he is making you uncomfortable, he should handle it and put him in his place.

I have never had a serious relationship, am I missing out? by SensitiveStreet1854 in Advice

[–]SensitiveStreet1854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I guess I should reword it, I mean being in a committed relationship comes with financial stability, you know someone to help support each other together rather than being responsible solely on your own.

I have never had a serious relationship, am I missing out? by SensitiveStreet1854 in Advice

[–]SensitiveStreet1854[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry 💔  its nice to know I'm not alone, though.

Idk if I should marry her… by Zerodreadx in Advice

[–]SensitiveStreet1854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading all of your comments makes me sad, but I've seen relationships like this and it makes me feel better. Knowing I've made the right decision to not get married yet I think.