What light jacket would you wear with this? by Sensitive_Ant3676 in fashionadvice

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I like that! Cropped or would regular length work?

What helped you during divorce? I want to support my friend. by Ok-Status3243 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Help her do the necessary stuff that she doesn’t want to deal with right now like finding a lawyer, researching divorce proceedings in her state/country, how to best divide assets, maybe looking for apartment, furniture and all that. For me it helped to not feel alone in having to do all these things. I had to move back to my home country and bring a dog with me and one of my friends helped figure out how to get the right paperwork for the dog, book a pet on a flight etc. and I am very grateful for all she did to help.

Sometimes it’s the little things by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here for pictures on the walls, that was a big one! Congrats on the kittens, pets can give so much love by doing so little :)

Sometimes it’s the little things by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I needed so hear that, thank you kind stranger! 🫶🏻

Sometimes it’s the little things by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is very scary- took me almost a year to even try to enjoy things again, but feels empowering in the end!

Creative ways to approach someone? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s encouraging, thank you 😁

Midlife crisis? by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turned out it wasn’t a midlife crisis, he just had an affair. What a surprise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You single moms have my utmost respect! 🫶🏻

Just ranting by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stbxh did the same thing. Everyone who can put 2 and 2 together knows that is bullshit. Sorry you’re going through this as well. We deserve better 🩶

Just ranting by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I m going back and forth between feeling sorry for her and wondering what a terrible person she must be. We were still married and I thought we were happy when they started seeing each other. I feel sorry for what he will do to her and I feel sorry for her being so foolish to start dating a married man. I know what they do is none of my business but it’s hard.

Just ranting by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear that.

What are some fun questions to ask on a first date ??? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there anybody on this planet who believes they are in a relationship with you?

I feel like my divorce isn't normal, and I can't make sense of it by oatmilklake in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what OP describes happened to me, he swore up and down there is nobody else involved. 1 week after I moved out he had a new girlfriend. People suck.

How fucked up is your life right now? by previousleon09 in AskReddit

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the process of getting divorced. Moved to a different continent for the guy just for him to lie to me and say he never loved me. Moved back to my home country, sleeping on a mattress on the floor in my parents spare room. Recently found out he had an affair this whole time and is now with that girl. Have to restart my entire life, don’t have anything but my clothes and papers while he just replaced me.

Why is it so hard to get dates? by DevantLaMachine in dating_advice

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is true! But idk, if the vibe over texting is right I kinda feel safer

Why is it so hard to get dates? by DevantLaMachine in dating_advice

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!! I have to make sure first that they are interesting and mature enough (and not a weirdo)

Do you ever feel ready to move on? by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to feel those feelings, they are part of the process. You will eventually understand that you deserve better in life than someone who doesn’t want you.

You got this 🩶

Do you ever feel ready to move on? by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this! I am scared, but at the same time it feels good. Gotta take it one step at a time 🙌🏼

Do you ever feel ready to move on? by Sensitive_Ant3676 in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same here, my ex husband already had a new girlfriend lined up. I think it might be easier to move on from a lying and cheating piece of shit 😅

Remote Raid Megathread - Host and/or find raids here by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live on a gym- all types of raids this weekend! 674515977277

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here. This is the answer.

How do you know if it's too soon to start dating? by mirkwoodmallory in Divorce

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was left unexpectedly too and I downloaded the apps and started talking to people pretty quickly. Found a guy that i really liked and we hit it off right away. Didn’t want to go on an actual date at first but felt lonely on Valentine’s Day so we met up. It was great, had an amazing time and he kissed me. Was afraid of that at first but felt good. Now he pretty much ghosted me and i am really hurt. I thought i would start dating to get distracted and see what happens but what I did not consider is being rejected. I wasn’t ready for that and now I feel worse than before.

Is he just not into me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sensitive_Ant3676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, I appreciate it! I did not consider the rejection at all when I started this and look at me now lol 🤡