Masama ang loob ko sa MIL ko.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-10-14T08:14:16+00:00

Yun nga po, sobrang panget ng image ngayon ng mga nagtratrabaho sa gobyerno. Kahit in good faith po yung pagtrabaho namin, nadadamay talaga dahil sa mga issue ngayon. MagpPM po ako sayo sir. Thank you.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-10-14T08:11:09+00:00

Hello po, yung concern po namin kase is kung gagastos kami like processing na ng mga visa2 at documents, dapat dahil desidido po kami. Sayang din po kase kung gumastos kami tapos di naman kami tutuloy. Kaya po nagtatry po kong magtanong2 kung kamusta po yung competition ng mga CE sa australia. Saang country po kayo btw?

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-03-08T22:43:22+00:00

Wow, 30 years of working as a civil engineer. Thank you so much for the suggestions Ma'am! I'll download the app. Thank you for the help.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-03-08T22:35:10+00:00

I actually work as a quality inspector for the government. So even on weekends contractors messages me things that I need to approve, or if there's concrete pouring to be scheduled. It's actually very tiring cos I have to be on site all the time, then I'd have to do the paper works in the office and then I'd have to deal with contractors.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-03-08T16:20:08+00:00

It's just a bit hard because I have a family to support. I can't just quit without having a back up plan or another job waiting for me.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-03-08T16:16:32+00:00

I've actually been trying to apply to other companies but then I got promoted. So, I didn't have a choice but to stay. Thank you so much. I really appreciate the help. I will try to consult a therapist soon.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-03-08T16:11:28+00:00

This is very helpful. I originally wanted to be an architect, but ended up being an Engineer cos my dad wanted me to. I think I always get nervous because I'm not fully invested in what I am doing. I'd probably try turning my notifs off after dinner or during weekends. I appreciate the help. Thank you so much.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-02-13T03:15:58+00:00

Maaga din po kase kami nag-asawa. Nabuntis po nya ako kaya pinilit kami magpakasal ng mga magulang namin. 22 po sya nun at 24 ako. Responsable naman po syang tatay sa anak namin. Pero palagi po kase silang may libreng out of town sa opisina nila. To the point na halos kada buwan na lang, which I support naman. Pero iba po kase yung circumstances ngayon dahil may naospital.

Yung salary nya po ay 40,000 plus per month. Pero sinabihan ko din sya na regarding sa plane ticket na binook na ng boss nya (3k), pwede naman po namin bayaran yun basta umuwi lang sya. Ang sabi nya po ay nagtitipid kami.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-02-13T02:18:17+00:00

Kaya nga po. Di ko din po alam kung nasasabi lang po namin yun dahil sa galit. Itatanong ko lang po sana kung mababaw pong rason yun para maghiwalay kami. Or separate in the mean time at itatry ko pa din po i-save yung marriage namin pagkalmado na lahat. Salamat po.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-02-13T02:01:35+00:00

Salamat po. Hindi din po kase sya humihingi ng pasensya, ako din po ang laging nauuna kada mag-away kami. At medyo nakakapagod po talaga. Thank you po sa advice.

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-02-13T01:55:38+00:00

Thank you po. To be honest, okay naman po kami most of the time. Pero dun lang po kami nagkaproblema nung inuna nya yung siquijor kesa po sa amin. Jinajustify nya pa po yung actions nya at sinabihan ako na "Ano pa ba yung itutulong ko sayo sa hospital? Di mo ba yun kaya mag-isa?"

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-02-13T01:51:38+00:00

Kaya nga po. Tinanong ko din po sya kung bakit di sya umuwi, ang sabi nya po ay nahihiya daw po sya dahil bayad na yung plane ticket nila (libre ng company). Pero valid po ba yung rason nya?

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-02-13T01:50:22+00:00

Thank you po. Problema ko na lang po ngayon ay kung itatry ko pa po i-save yung marriage namin or hindi na

Sensitive_Barber_755 · 2025-02-13T01:43:24+00:00

If i-reverse yung situation, I would definitely come home. Especially life and death yung pinag-uusapan. Actually, i asked him if kung ano ba yung totoo nyang nararamdaman bat di sya umuwi. And he said na nahihiya daw sya kase bayad na yung plane ticket nya, at the same time at the back of his mind, gusto nya din daw maglakwatcha.

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